Judit Guerra poses naked for Victor Supertramp photoshoot (2017)
Judit Guerra poses naked for Victor Supertramp photoshoot (2017). Judit Guerra is a Spanish model
So, title says basically it all.
Do you like fingering during oral? Before it? After it?
Can you cum with it?
Just general curiosity, I see so much variety in tastes here but seldom I see women writing they like fingering.
Edit: “fingering” as in finger inside the pussy, not DJing the clit (that is not fingering, that is DJs or masturbating, or whatever)
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glowmilk: God, I can’t even express in words how much I love being fingered. It’s great. I just love feeling someone’s finger enter me and I feel like my soul is being snatched when they hit my g-spot. It’s definitely one of the simplest sexual activities, but one that gives so much joy nonetheless.
WhereYouGoinSnek: I like when my guy inserts two fingers during (giving me) oral and moves them slowly. That’s about the only time I like fingering. Sometimes he attempts to finger me while I’m giving HIM oral – super uncomfortable.
little__pumpkin: Um, always. I prefer it over most things.
therealme0929: Honesty? Not really. I found most of the men I’ve been with go straight to trying to penetrate with their fingers. I prefer clit stimulation.
During oral I find it distracting and uncomfortable. To be honest, I don’t even finger myself when masturbating.
meltallica82: If it involves clit stimulation then yes, I enjoy it and can orgasm from it.
aussieJoJo: I will orgasm quicker with 1 or 2 fingers inserted and moving slowly.
TheOtterlady: For a little prep, sure. But I personally don’t like it if mixed with clitoral stimulation cause I feel like it takes away some of the clitoral sensation (?) for me.
nottylilpearl: Sometimes. They have to be good at it and it’s good if I’m already a bit turned on, so I can really feel it, if that makes sense.
liftingandtitties: Yes. Always. Anytime.
ostara12: Not the jack hammering with the fingers men seem to do. It’s especially distracting during oral and will make it hard to orgasm. It just throws everything off, for me anyway. Oral is more sensual for me and if I want something thrusting into me I would rather it be a penis.
Now, if I’m about to orgasm from oral and he slips in a finger or two and just holds it there, that’s good because I can clench on it as I’m cumming. I’m much more sensitive on one side of my clit, so I prefer to have those fingers stroking over there instead.
Kitedude: As a guy I love when she sticks a cheeky finger in me while blowing me
Kit4000: I can get myself off with my hand but I dont like a partners fingers clitorally and definitely not vaginally. On my clitoris the pressure is never right and vaginally it just feels like Im being poked and doesnt feel good at all.
bmxgroupie: I love 1 finger lazily dragging back and forth pressed toward my g spot. All the way in, (nearly) all the way out. What’s funny to me is my SO sometimes tries to like power fuck me with his fingers, using more than 1 and trying to go crazy deep. It’s awful to me. Zero pleasure because what I feel are his knuckles punching into my pelvic bones and fingers that are way too short to reach my deep spot anyway. THERES NO PRIZES COMING OUT OF THERE BUDDY SO WHAT ARE YOU REACHING FOR ANYWAY? lol I love him tho.
platinum_collective: Woman here who loves it. Will ask for it. But first I need to be wet, so foreplay and clit stimulation, then you can feel how wet I am and glide into me. It’s really the best when it starts with foreplay just like kissing and touching and he moves his hand to my clit and starts slowly then goes down to eat me out. When I’m getting close to orgasm typically that is when I want to be fingered. One finger for a bit then two then you don’t just move them in and out, you curl them up. That with clit stimulation will put me over the edge and my legs will be shaking around his head.
neuenono: Straight guy here who has gotten to know a dozen women really well in bed – basically none of them enjoyed fingering in the sense of “fingers inside them”. I think one got *some* pleasure from it. I think the term sometimes refers to stroking of the clit, which many enjoy. Most women generally said finger penetration felt awkward/bony. I will note that my sample under-represents g-spots – almost none of my partners weren’t wired for g-spot pleasure. No “come higher” payoff. So that might be the main determinant.
OldTimer85: Back in the day I never thought anything about it. However, once I met my boyfriend his skill at that played a small part in us becoming a couple.
RoseintheWoods: Yup yup yup. My g-spot is right inside the front door, so two fingers pressing upwards while moving in and out is a recipe for an orgasm and a puddle.
MaybeDressageQueen: Chiming in with the “love it” group. I love wandering fingers, just slowly, gently teasing around the area before penetrating. Can’t come without clit stimulation, but I could let someone finger me for hours and not get bored. I have trouble orgasming during sex, normally afterward we’ll break out the vibrator and he’ll finger me while I use the vibe on my clit. Fantastic orgasms.
Smokeahontas: I LOVE it, but to be honest it’s only because my husband has magic hands or something. It was never something I enjoyed with men I was with before him. I don’t even know that I can describe what exactly he’s doing or how but wowwww it does it for me like nothing else.
Yes_Im_A_Stripper: During oral I prefer to mix it up. 3 minutes just oral, 3 minutes oral with simultaneous fingering. Back and forth
Soluzar: This is not really the question you’re asking, but may I say that I love being the one with the finger in this activity.
[deleted]: Ugh, yes. Drives me insane.
temptingangel: Love, love, love it as part of foreplay. It’s the best during the summer when it’s sundress season (warm weather where are you??) but can’t always come from it though unless I’m already super worked up and squirming and dripping all over his lap.
kaypond: Not really. The pain factor outweighs the pleasure for me. It dries me out so it’s never good for foreplay. I’m surprised people can cum from it
cocksuckaddict: Yes I love it. It always makes me moan uncontrollably.
seira0807: Good hands make light work (paraphrase)
vilestrawberry: Fingering is pretty much all I like. No oral or PIV. Just digital.
sunnyd00: If a guy is good at it, I fuckin’ love it. I don’t know if it brings me back to high school and feeling like a horny teenager again or what, lol…but I fuckin love it. Yes I can come with it.
limerent_doe: I absolutely love it. My SO slowly turns me on by lazily stroking my clit and sucking my nipples. Once I’m turned on enough he presses his finger against my soaked entrance to make me beg for it.
A couple nights ago I was aroused enough to have his dick in me and his two fingers on my g-spot. We were put on another planet it felt so good. In that position he also had a pinky placed against my ass and I would have been fine with a little bit of ass play in that moment.
Don’t try to do it right out of the gate though. Obviously there needs to be enough lubrication (either natural or other). And most women I know prefer their partners to be gentle with their fingers. You don’t need to get a forearm/biceps workout. Listen for direction if you need to map in the vagina. She’ll tell you where to go and how to get there.
gingersatann: I looooooveeeee being fingered. So much. I think I almost like it more than sex.
Canadian_Will: I think everyone is different. Best way to know is a conversation prior to the activity.
hd3sb: I would say yes but.. no. It depends on the person too, to be completely honest. Finger nails clipped.. how aggressive… is oral given too.. Some people just don’t get it. Other people do. Sometimes they just “go for it” and it’s definitely not a turn on. But I guess with the right person it would be okay.
ImperialCupcake: Love it. Get me wet, hit my gspot and we’ll have hours of fun-and a soaked bed.
defami: I disagree.
Kringspier_Des_Heren: I assume you mean vulval/clitoral/vaginal with this and no, not particularly but I also know I’m probably an exception with how insensitive that region is for me.
MoistDampSoggy: My husband keeps exacto knife fingernails so I don’t like it with him but I loved it with other partners when I was younger.
fishy444: Yes my absolute weakness, I would choose to be fingered over PIV, something so hot about a guys hands and knowing they’re inside me, unreal. Definitely the ‘come hither’ motion though, straight in and out is nothing compared to that
E__Pluribus_Unum: As a dude, i thought that girls prefered to be licked/clit stimulation than to be fingered (well at least from my last girlfriend experience)
darealqueenb: If it’s done well, FUCK YEAH.
I can’t cum exclusively from it. I’ll need some clit lovin’ too.
Just………trim your fingernails first. Nothing more of a mood killer than getting stabbed in the vag with a rogue sharp fingernail.
Whaddaya Say?