The 12 tricks to nailing a great blow job
When it comes to fail-safe foreplay, blow jobs are up there with the best of them.
Give or take the odd exception, they are usually enjoyed by the receiver, and can be arousing for the giver too.
But not everyone can add ‘great blow job-giver’ to their CV and there is definitely an art to giving good head.
So, if you want to blow your partner’s brains and make sure your skills don’t suck, here are the 12 tricks to nailing a great blow job.
1. Be enthusiastic
If you hate giving blow jobs don’t give them.
If you’re happy to suck a dick then let him know, because your partner giving you a blow job is sexy.
Knowing your partner loves giving you a blow job? Hot.
2. Get comfortable
Make sure there’s a pillow nearby for your knees or that you’ve positioned yourself in such a way you’re not going to start having neck spasms or get lock jaw.
3. Don’t rush it
A good blow job doesn’t mean you need to swallow his entire penis before he’s barely got his jeans off.
Lead up to it gently with a few strokes, some licking from base to tip or even a bit of sexy talk telling him what you are about to do.
4. Lube up
Once he’s hard, or getting there, slide your mouth up and down his penis to make sure it’s naturally lubed up.
Friction ain’t no fun.
5. Use your hands
Unless your partner’s penis fits in your mouth comfortably, use your hand to stimulate the lower part while your tongue works the magic on the top half.
Find your rhythm and away you go.
6. Use your tongue
Whether it’s pressed against the underside of his dick or teasing the tip, your tongue is the difference between a blow job and a *blow job*.
7. Do not use your teeth
As a general rule, dicks do not like being bitten.
8. Get eye contact
Positioning yourself so your partner can see you in action is going to intensify his pleasure 10-fold, and throwing him the odd seductive glance when his penis is in your mouth may well lead to marriage proposals.
You have been warned.
Be gentle with his balls but don’t forget them.
Softly rolling his balls in your hand while sucking his penis will send many men wild – or give them a gentle suck while still stroking his dick with your hand.
If you are enjoying it, you don’t need to break out into song midway but the occasional ‘mmm’ of appreciation is not only super sexy but will assure the receiver that your blow job is a pleasure not a chore.
11. Spare hand
Any good at multi-tasking?
Play with yourself during the blow job.
Synchronised foreplay orgasms = life goals.
Far less messy and full of anti-ageing properties.
Just kidding. A lot of men seem to like this though.