Playboy QUASENUAS: Kacau Fonseca (2017)
What do women think of mens sex drive?
Men are typically described as being horny all the time and think about sex many times a day. In your experience do men have an almost unlimited supply of sexual energy or… are they a disappointment, and struggle to keep up with you in the bedroom? Or somewhere in the middle?
Please ladies give me your honest opinion of mens sex drive and how it compares to yours.
luckycharms4life: Men and women both experience varying levels of libido.
Syphii: I think it’s a myth. None of my partners has ever been able to keep up with me.
howaboutnope89: I have a moderately high sex drive and have been with men in the past who both did and didn’t have the same drive as me. I don’t honestly mind either way, sometimes it’s nice to have a relationship that doesn’t solely revolve around sex. I don’t feel like I NEED to have sex every day (although I do masturbate at least once a day, but I consider that mostly “me time”) but if I’m with a guy who is down- that’s cool too.
I know for a fact that women are extremely sexual beings- it’s just shitty society that’s tried to condition us into believing that we cannot express our desires because it’s “unbecoming” (or whatever the hell).. We definitely think about alex…a lot.
finmeister: People vary. There are both men and women who want it multiple times a day. There are both men and women who want it a few times a year. And, an individual’s libido can vary as well. Stress, hormone cycles, exercise regimen or lack of, or simply being busy can all lower someone’s otherwise high libido. My own libido varies a lot.
meltallica82: High sex drives are not exclusive to men. Some men have lower libidos than their partners. Everyone is different.
subbadubbdubb: I have a theory about this. I call it the intimacy drive theory.
Based on my experience, guys tend to have an intimacy drive, the exact intensity of which varies dramatically from guy to guy, but it tends to remain approximately the same throughout life barring trauma. Sex drive is only a part of intimacy drive, and younger guys seem to express more of their intimacy drive as sex drive than they do when they get older, when they start to get more appreciation for non-sex-act forms of intimacy. That’s not to say they don’t enjoy sex later in life, but that they appreciate other things too.
Women’s sex drive/intimacy drive, by contrast, is *so* connected to hormones and hormonal control such that it’s hard to come up with hard-and-fast guidelines. So much of the childbearing-age female population is on medication that often severely impacts sex drive, and when we’re not on that medication it’s specifically so we can conceive (an action that requires sex) or are gestating.
JaniePage: I’ve had a pretty high sex drive when in relationships, and have been knocked back for sex many, many more times than I have knocked back the guy because I’m ‘not in the mood.’
I learned fairly swiftly that guys being 100% ready and willing for sex 100% of the time is simply untrue.
katzluvme: It’s definitely a myth that men want it 24/7. My SO could care less 90% of the time. Everything effects his desire, mood, weather, anxiety, etc. Honestly it’s annoying as fuck. Rant over.
TinyCynner: My BF’s is lower than mine. He can keep up most of the time, but I also do a *lot* of masturbating.
cassm21: I’ve had an ex who wanted sex all the time. Like multiple times in one night. And other ex, who I was with for a year and we only had sex 14 times because he was always “too tired”. So it really just depends on the guy. Personally, I thought the multiple times every time we seen each other was too much and the 14 times in a year was waaaay too little.
alittlebirdy1: What do women think about men’s favorite ice cream flavors? That question would be exactly as useful.
Men have wildly varying libido levels, preferences, desires, etc. As do women. Almost like they are people or something.
SquidwardsLef10tacle: I think it varies from person to person, regardless of gender. But I think if you looked at the general population, men do generally have higher and more pressing sex drives than women.
In my own experience, all the men I’ve been in relationships with would have had sex multiple times a day if I had gone along with it. I’d prefer 2-3 times a week, with more emphasis on quality over quantity.
Oksus69: From my experiences and conversations with people, I would agree that men seem to be more horny than the average woman. But, I’m just a small sample size.
As far as how I compare, the majority of my thoughts are about sex.