A Simple Trick To Get a Girl To Think About
We all know how frustrating it can be when you have finally climbed the mountain to sex with a woman, but she gives you Last Minute Resistance that can often times result in NO SEX. I used to absolutely hate when I put in so much work just to ‘almost make it’. Over the years of this happening I developed 3 Simple Guidelines to help me decrease the chances of Last Minute Resistance or even Complete Resistance. So without further ado, I’d like to present 3 Methods that you can try out for your self and let me know if it worked.
Here’s a video of my infield demonstrating this: http://youtu.be/ZNoSIVe-biY
AMBIGUITY OF VERBAL INTEREST:
One thing that has become abundantly clear to me was that DIRECT GAME can sometimes naturally place you into CHASING FRAME in the female perspective. This can stifle your mid-to-end game since she may not be invested enough to go all the way with you. If you really think about it, how do women meet men in Social Circles? They usually get to know him in a friendly way first, and then it transitions into romance. The question is why does this work? Well, for one, the girl does not know if the guy really likes her or not since guys in social circle settings are generally a lot more careful with regards to showing romantic/sexual intent too soon. By her not being too sure, her guards a much lower while, simultaneously, she is confused about how the guy feels about her. For instance, she may wonder, “Does he like me just for sex or does he like me for more or is he just a friendly flirty guy with no intentions?” This is CHICK CRACK. Women NEED MYSTERY. Women love to figure things out. Just the act of her truing to figure you out is often enough investment for her to be attracted to you. Look at all the novels, its all about mystery (and I don’t mean they guy with the fuzzy hat:). Let’s take a quick look at some examples of Ambiguity of Interest.
On the Conversation opener, approach her with a friendly vibe… make her wonder what you want. Don’t give her the validation of you professing your undying love for her. Instead, mix things up always. Compliment her, then say something you don’t like or agree with… then say things like “you would be such a cool friend/ but then physically escalate like a flirty hug. Confuse her.
Ideally, make your MIX VERBALS with a mixture of interest and disinterest. You will notice that she will always be more invested since she is not sure and will always give you the benefit of doubt.
STEADY AND PROGRESSIVE PHYSICAL ESCALATION:
Progressive physical escalation is key. Remember, physicals will impact her SUBCONSCIOUS MIND much louder than your verbals ever could. Therefore, by the simple act of progressively increasing your physical intimacy, she will become sexually attracted from the inbred ‘Man-To-Woman’ attraction triggers within her hind-brain.
To further emphasize the power of touch, think about it this way… A woman can get sexually turned on from any man if they are touching her in the right places. For men this is not quite true, men get sexually aroused by ‘visual aesthetics’. Women are turned on by touch. For instance, if an ugly man is laying in the bed with a hot woman, if she allows him to play with her clitoris she will get turned on and want his dick. The more she wants it, the harder it is for her to fight it. .
This is why it is important to keep on touching. I’v had girls tell me that I am too touchy… But guess what, that was the same reason why I would eventually get to sleep with them. Touching is an art form that you will have to practice over time. My recommendation is just to work yourself into getting more comfortable touching people in general.
SHOW HER THAT YOU ARE NON-JUDGMENTAL:
Let me make it plain and simple. GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO CONVEY that you are NOT going to judge her for her sexual past or present. Here’s why. Women will ALWAYS ASSUME that YOU WILL JUDGE THEM even if you haven’t said anything to support it.
I will often tell her a story or rant about how I hate how people judge women for their SEX life etc. I will also try to show it in my demeanor by seeming casual and free spirited about life in general. You ultimately want to convey that you are ok with whatever her past is. If she does tell you a few things, make sure you seem like it’s completely normal. I would often mention a side story about a girlfriend with a relatively ‘worse’ past than hers so she can feel better about it.
Once she feels like she won’t be judged if she acts on the attraction that you’ve accumulated in the back of her mind… then she will be much more sexually expressive and to the point with you.