How to blow his mind after 3 months apart?
Me (20f) and my boyfriend (21m) have been together 2 years, we’re long distance so we see each other every couple of months when we can afford it. When we’re together we have a pretty active sex life, and we stay sexually connected when we’re apart with phones and so on.
This time round we haven’t seen each other in 3 months, the longest we’ve ever gone, and we’ll onlt be together for a couple of days before we have to say goodbye for another 2 months. I really want to give him a special, unforgettable sexual experience. Any advice?
Altostratus: In my experience, putting this kind of pressure on every visit is a recipe for disaster. Spend quality time together, tell each other what you mean to eachother, and have some nice sex.
Rarely_racist: Some pretty terrible answers in here…..I can at least try to answer seriously.
In a previous relationship, I had been apart from my gf for around a month. We were almost identical in age to yourselves.
I got dropped at her house and went to the door. She answered the door wearing a silk robe, hair smelling incredible, makeup… Hole 9. She led me by the hand into the bedroom, and said she can’t wait to hear about my trip but wants to ‘take care of me first’. Takes me by the hand into the room which she had heated to perfect temp with perfect low lighting and soulful tunes on the system. Super seductive.
She started by kissing my face, neck and body while undressing me then gave me an incredibly slow bj. For about 15 minutes she licked, sucked and teased my cock and balls. It was incredible. She took off the robe, under which she was wearing nothing. She walked to the other side of the room and kneeled down and gestured for me to join her. I walked over and she started giving me head while on her knees while telling me how wet she was and how bad she wanted me to cum in her. She stood up and turned around and leaned over a chair. I fucked her doggy for about 2 or 3 min but she kept telling me to go slow, which I did. She then turned to face me, knelt down again and gave me more head. I was close to cumming at this point. She could tell so she stopped and walked out of the room. I heard her call me so I followed. She was on the couch and I joined. She lay me down and rode me super slowly, for probably 5 min. At this point I was about to explode. She got off and took me back into the bedroom, climbed onto the bed and got into doggy style and told me to fuck her hard until I was about to cum. I fucked her and when I was about to cum she turned around and told me to cum on her face which was very unlike her and amazing. I came all over her face which I really really enjoyed.
The whole experience was incredible, she adopted a completely different persona; much more demanding and in control. Along with the hair / perfume and clothes… The whole thing was amazing.
Don’t know if that helps but God damn that was fun. 10 years ago and I can still remember her opening that door.
sev45day: As someone else said, this is putting alot of pressure on yourself and him frankly. I would suggest you take good care of him, by that I mean make him a nice meal you know he likes, give him a massage, help him relax… And then flat out tell him “I really want to give you a special, unforgettable sexual experience. Is there anything I can do to give you that?”
alwaystryingtoescape: My advice is to just relax, take your time with it, and enjoy yourselves. Sex is best when you allow that tension to build up before going straight into it. Wear something that makes you feel sexy, like maybe some lacy lingerie underneath if that’s what you like. I like to start off just making out, undressing slowly, kissing on his body, and then giving some good head. Blow his mind & get really into it. Then when you’re both feeling it, go at it. Maybe think about what y’all have always wanted to do, and experiment.
jogdenpr: Don’t just use the time you spend together for sex. That might end up feeling like you only meet up so you can have a proper release rather phone /cyber sex
hawkeye_420: I think you should pamper him. I’d love that. Wait for him in some sexy lingerie, take him by the had to the shower. Start the hot water, undress him. Now you can give him a few minutes to shower, or you can clean him yourself. After the shower give him a nice slow blow job with him laying on the bed. Kiss his chest, his belly, thighs. If you’re feeling adventurous give him a little rim job. Finish him off by swallowing his load, tell him how much you enjoy it. Then give him a show by slowly rubbing your body, taking off clothes as you go, if you want. Rub your boobs, lick your fingers, touch your pussy. Lay back on the bed, open your legs and begin touching yourself. Ask him to come lick you. Encourage him to eat your pussy, tell him what you like. When you’re ready ask him to fuck you. He’ll be so ready again, but should last a bit since you already sucked him off.
That’s my suggestion. He’ll never forget it. 😉
sexyanonymous: i have a long distance thing with my partner, we talk alot about sexual stuff, about kinks etc, being pretty open with each other…
we talk about what we’re going to do to each other, and i have been researching certain things that she has told me i dont do well to her for her, or things she doesnt like… ie fingering and cunnilingus, hopefully some pro techniques will change her mind…
theres also shit we want to try, a little rape fantasy, bondage, etc
idle_goofball: Honestly, just be you. Maybe take your shirt off. You know that saying “hunger is the best sauce?” It works for sex too. Have fun.
seeker135: “Interactive” massage oils, new small vibe, an indulgence in his fave fantasy.
My girlfriend has picked me up from the train station wearing lingerie over a coat (twice). The last time she did it, her coat was unbuttoned and I saw her cleavage the whole ride home. I’ve also fingered her while she’s driven us back.
Then there was another time where we rented a hotel room because we were going to a party in the city. Before the party, I went somewhere for a few hours and, when I came back, she was in slutty lingerie, hair done, makeup done. We fucked for hours.
baron76: Just show up.
PteroStero: Why the heck do you ask the world about your bfs specific sexual preferences? He maybe into ropes and chains. You clearly have a lot to learn about relationships. Think about the sexual things he hinted to you when he was away. If you can’t think of anything that he may like, ask him what he wants. But overall, definitely have a convo about what turns him on n stuff.