Girlfriend (19f) wants to try stuff with food can I (19m) use food with her?
My girlfriend and I want to bring something new to the bedroom and recently she showed my the blowjob tutorial with the food and I was wondering if there was a way I could do similar things when going down on her. I’ve seen people talk about mints which I might try and she’s not too keen on penetrating with fruit and veg. If not is there anything I can do to bring something new to going down on her that will be different and exciting?
IconicSuperheroName: >she showed my the blowjob tutorial with the food
you finna get grapefruited
pokerbrowni: Ice cubes are good; But be careful with anything involving food (particularly sugar) and the vagina since bladder/yeast infections are a far greater risk for vaginas than penises. This doesn’t mean all that stuff is out; just that care must be taken.
Personally, I always stuck with caramel/chocolate sauce on the boobs. But my ex had regular issues with yeast infections as a kid and was pretty concerned about getting more, so food near the cooch was a no-no.
badsp0rk: I find the pastrami to be the most sensual of salted, cured meats.
theninjallama: Jimmy Dean in the vagene
AnnaEugenia: There’s a lot of flavored stuff meant specifically for that area that’ll probably be a better idea for safety reasons.
Actual food, I’d try to put elsewhere. Don’t be so preoccupied about the labia that you forget other sensitive places! The neck, earlobes, navel, back, fingers and palms, inside of my elbows, backs of my knees, and obviously nipples are all erogenous zones for me, and are totally safe places to put food.
If you REALLY want to do something with the labia, I dated a guy who would use one frozen pea, push it around with his tongue. I’m sure it would work with other small things, just make sure that if it’s vaginal you keep to some criteria:
1. Nothing that will melt (aside from ice) or fall apart.
2. No animal products, for obvious sanitary reasons.
3. A little at a time so you don’t lose track of where things are.
4. Nothing spicy or full of sugar, because you don’t want burns or yeast infections; if she’s into pain, I’ve heard that ginger is relatively safe.
You guys are young. You’ll figure out what works. Just be SAFE! 🙂
solidad: If using food-stuffs like syrups near “internal areas” I would highly recommend foods sweetened with stevia or xylitol. Normal sugary items can cause yeast infections. Avoid aspartame, saccharin and sodium saccharin as well.
bubonis: There are more issues with using food on women than there are with using food on men, mainly because of the internal arrangement of the women’s parts. “Inappropriate” foods down there can lead to all kinds of health issues, none of them pretty. If you choose to explore “dining at the Y” then I recommend you consider the labia to be the limits of exploration.
That being said, I strongly recommend Altoids. Chew up two or three of them before going down on your woman. For some extra “oomph” add a drop of peppermint oil to each mint before chewing.
SphincterSurprise: Fisherman’s friend👍
45CaliberNachos: Hot sauce. Alternate with ranch.
virgolady23: Try citrus, like squeezing a lemon, lime, orange on her nipple and sucking the juice off. Keep things away from the genitals if possible. Women have a delicate ph cycle. Also you could try putting chocolate chips downs her lower spine and….youll know what to do from there. I would advise against anything crazy the first time, work up your confidence!
paidraich: I gave my gf oral with ice cubes in my mouth, and then slid them around her labia then slid one inside, but it was too cold to leave there very long. It obviously made things nice and wet.
Dogzillas_Mom: I am super not down with food + sex because all I can think about is, “that isn’t supposed to go there, now I’m gonna get a UTI or something.” A UTI is a urinary tract infection. Besides, it’s messy and really difficult to get chocolate syrup off the sheets.
Pro tip: whipped cream made with real cream curdles at body temperature. If you’re gonna go that way, I strongly recommend something NON dairy.
ImReeceBro: Whipped cream bro
PMme-YourPussy: Anything sticky is not worth it, and when you insert a chocolate bar body heat melts it.
scuzzchops: This is worth a read… http://www.b3ta.com/questions/foodsex/post497151 🙂
briannasaurusrex92: If you’re just looking for new flavors, or an excuse to lick her like crazy, try drizzling some flavored lube over and around her sensitive areas? System JO makes a huge line of really nice flavors (and their Gelato line is SUPER popular, shit legit tastes like a bottle of dessert). If you’re concerned about glycerin or certain preservatives, look into Sliquid brand for a more carefully curated ingredient list (and tbh I find the flavor from Sliquid lubes lasts longer than JO’s anyway).
Bud_Johnson: Chew Menthol gum and go down on her.
Lollipos also work well.
ThomasTgeDankEngine: Me (m) and my partner (f) recently got this powder from a local sex shop. I can’t remember the name right now, but the flavor is strawberry champagne. It comes with a feather duster and is wonderful to lick off! A generous dusting on breasts or thighs, lick lick lick!
ZachyWillz: Give “Nyotaimori” a search.
ninriel: Nutella, Put it on her clitoral hood (but try to keep it away from the vaginal opening!)
GaryNOVA: When my wife and I tried this as we were dating 16 years ago we both decided it was messy and stupid. It was not as sexy as the movies made it seem. But go ahead. We all have to go through this realization apparently.
GunsBeersTitties: I could eat a peach for hours
manwhowritesthings: its messy, but chocolate syrup is fun to play with and delicious