If you were to just walk up to a woman and ask her if she is the type to have sex on the first date, what do you think her response would be? No? You got it. Most women will tell you right off the bat that sex on a first date is NOT going to happen. If you think that means that it is totally out of the question and that you CANNOT have sex on a first date with a woman, think AGAIN!
Women are practically trained to make this kind of response, but that does not mean that she will not have sex on the first date if everything goes just right. And by going just right, I’m not talking about walking up with a dozen roses and courting her like it was straight out of a movie. Even in the real world, you can still end up having sex on the first date, as long as you play your cards right!
Here are some tips on how to make her want to have sex on the first date with YOU:
1. You have to create a sensual mood.
If you want to ensure that you are going to set yourself up for some first date sex, then you have to create a sensual mood for the night. Create an atmosphere where you can be alone with her without a lot of interruptions. A quite booth in the corner of a restaurant can be all that you need to start things off just right with her. Whatever you do, keep in mind that the mood of the evening is one of the biggest determining factors of whether or not she will end up in YOUR bed.
2. Don’t make all of the conversation sexual.
When you have her close to you and you are deep in conversation with her, it’s okay to throw in some sexual undertones to the back and forth banter, but, you do not want to come on too strong with the sex talk. If she thinks that the only thing on your mind is getting her back to your place and in your bedroom, you may not like the end result. Women are pretty protective of their image, and if she thinks that all you are trying to do is tag another notch above your bedpost, she will hit the ground running.
3. Share some intimate experience with her.
Whether it’s a conversation about something intimate, or a physical act like dancing, you want to share some intimate experience with her before you try and get intimate in the way that YOU really want to. When you have already shared a little intimacy in one form, it’s only natural that you will share it in the physical form as well.
4. Show her how you kiss.
Kissing is a natural prelude to sex, so you want to show her what you got in the kissing department. Don’t wait for the moment when you want to lead her into your bedroom for you to go for the first kiss. Instead, kiss her earlier in the evening, get it out the way, and then make your move to take the kissing a little further as the night goes on.
5. Start with the foreplay.
Don’t just rush into intercourse, take it slower and start with the foreplay with her. Run your hands up and down her legs nice and slowly and kiss her on the neck and down her chest. When you show her that the evening is all about her, she won’t feel like you are just out to get a little action. She will feel that the two of you are sharing something more genuine and special.