How to be ready for anal faster?
It takes me forever to relax enough. If I wore a butt plug before he comes over would that help?
What if I wore one throughout the day just anytime I felt like it? Is it possible to over-stretch it and make anal not as pleasurable for him?
Pavlovurasag: Try it for a few hours. Also, send him pics about your bottom and throw in some dirty text. It will be fun!
ReadAt8531: Just get ready a few hours before hand. Clean and stuff some small toys up there to prepare. If you feel “loose”, you can always push or clench.
MrKarmaChameleon: You could try using poppers which relaxes your anal sphincter. Butt plugs will help. I wouldn’t worry about overstretching with a plug. As a gay male bottom, I get compliments on my tight butthole after 10 years of receiving anal sex. I’ve tested my limits. If he doesn’t typically finger your butthole, that can be extremely enjoyable and helps tremendously.
I’m a masochist so sometimes I let him just go for it lol. But poppers are a surefire way.