Sore after sex? Does this happen to anyone else?
I’ve been sleeping with a very well-endowed man and I’ve been noticing I’m extremely sore afterwards. It almost feels like I have cramps, I get nauseous like an hour after and my vagina itself is really sore, like it hurts to sit, hurts to use the bathroom. It’s not a lubrication issue and I’m allergic to latex so we’re using non-latex condoms, so it wouldn’t be an allergic reaction. We had sex this morning and I’ve been nauseous all day.
I don’t wanna make an appointment with my gyno if this is a normal thing so is this usual with bigger men? I’ve never had sex with someone as large as him
mulesfuksub: He might be hitting your cervix. That will cause those symptoms.
TehranTigress: This happens to me too if my partner is ever going really hard and jams my cervix quite a bit before I can vocalize that he needs to take it easy. I get nauseous afterward and get cramps for a little while. The part where is hurts to sit or use the bathroom is a bit concerning, and I would personally get it checked out.
neuenono: It seems like he’s hammering on your cervix. He will not feel this as painful on his end – it will feel neutral or good. So you have to tell him. I say this as a guy that took too long to figure out that going all the way in could cause pain/injury.
Things to do: fuck in the spooning position, fuck in prone bone, or you get to be on top and control the depth (don’t let him move his hips!).
anxiousari: Something similar happens to me. My fwb thrusts really hard, which causes me to occasionally become swollen and tender.
I think nauseation can come from hitting your cervix, but I’m not 100% on that one.
Ask him to take it easy and try slower sex next time and see what happens
sugar_taint: i tend to feel sore, like that feeling when you push on a bruise. sometimes a little spotting. but it only lasts a few hours to a day, and doesnt make me nauseous and isnt a sharp pain or anything bad.
akinyele1: Happened to a girl I was fucking that took it real deep, said her stomach hurt the next day. I’d say if it doesn’t go away in a couple days to consider a doctor
_Pixality_: Definitely hitting your cervix. That is the absolute worst 🙁 I’m sorry and I hope you can find a way to deal with it