I want to give a BJ
I’m kinda just curious to see if I would enjoy giving a BJ. What is the best way to do this while staying as secretive as possible ?
Mombie667: Tinder or grindr
anonymousalice2: Are you a guy or girl (or present as a guy or girl I guess to be inclusive)…?
Because there are like whole subreddits for straight (or uhh “straight”) dudes who just want to blow other dudes pretty much anonymously or as anonymously as you want.
If you’re a girl there are like only about a billion men who would be happy to let you give them a beej. There you just need to avoid creepers, IMO
TheCuddliestPidgeon: Assuming you are a penis-owner.
Do you have a gay, bi, or heteroflexible friend? That could be a place to start.
I know you want to be discreet, but I feel better if I know the person is trustworthy. If they are worthy of your trust, they’ll likely be discreet.
Technical_Warthog: I wouldn’t recommend staying secretive. Your spouse is pretty much the only person who absolutely needs a heads up.
Straight or bi, cheating is cheating.