The Rape of the Vampire (1968)
Le viol du vampire (original title)
So my boyfriend is able to give me the best orgasms. He’s the first person I have ever been with who can do it without my help or clit play. However, I am very orgasm shy. All of my partners have told me “don’t hold back” including my current one. But now occasionally, the orgasms get so intense and I feel a lot of pressure build up that when I orgasm/cum… I let out a fart. It’s not every single time I have sex but It is so emabarassing to the point of any time I want to climax, I stop because I don’t want it to happen. My boyfriend doesn’t say anything and he tries to continue but I instantly tell him to stop because i am mortified.
Has this happened to anybody else? Men, does this bother you or gross you out if it has happened to you? (I’m a female by the way).
patjudge123: i am sure your boyfriend doesn’t care. i am male. i personally am often worried about whether a woman is actually having an orgasm or just humoring me. your fart is one more indication that you are feeling good. just relax and enjoy yourself. im sure thats what your boyfriend wants.
throwitaway1596: Wanted to be sexy and show bf his creampie, he thought I had pushed it all out already but I INSISTED he watch. I farted instead. I died a little. Since then we have fart wars on occasion and it’s just apart of life. Now that I think of it my bf actually farted when he came or came close. He warned me and I kept going because I thought it was funny and even almost a bit hot that he was losing such control over his body. That loss of control and being so in the moment is such a sexy thing. Who cares if a fart comes with it
goddesslyta: Show me someone who has never farted during sex and I’ll show you a liar and/or someone who isn’t living up to their full sex-potential.
I’ve heard that a some cultures consider farting after a meal a compliment to the chef. Just tell your partner that if you fart it’s just you showing your appreciation for a job well done.
SteveJackson007: Used to have a roommate in college who farted every single time he had an orgasm. Unfortunateky, we had bunk beds so i not only had to listen to him but smell him as well. haha
myredditun123: I had an ex that this would occasionally happen to. More often, she would queef a lot too, either during orgasm or after sex. Honestly? I found it incredibly hot that she would lose control of herself like that. It’s a total ego boost to push her into a space where she can’t help but have this happen. Like someone else said, it’s an indication of a genuine event since nobody could or would do that intentionally.
My advice? Play into it. “I can’t believe you can make me do that.” “Look what you made me do!” “I’d be embarrassed if I didn’t just have an awesome orgasm.”
sradracer: From a Man = Let the fart rip! If he is a good lover, your partner wants you to have the best orgasm you can have! If that orgasm includes a fart, then great! It’s natural, you could tell him, you fucked the shit out of me! Own it, and enjoy the orgasm! Your man should be proud to give you such a strong orgasm!
PaulaDeensLube: That’s happened to me a couple times, only when the orgasms were mind blowing. I apologized and my boyfriend said it was cool that my body was so relaxed and I just “let everything out.” Lol. He was a great sport about it and I still felt sexy. It happens!
recumbentresources: This has happened to me, and I can assure you that I would be far more disappointed that your reservations were causing so much distress to your sex life, that during such an intimate and intense personal moment together you would lack the trust in the person you’re with that you feel that you should ignore your partner who has told you that you don’t have to worry about reservations and is continuing the sex without the problem that you are ascribing to it. If I’m putting my penis in someone, I really don’t care about something that insignificant.
Talk to the person you’re having sex with about the sex you’re having.
SCphotog: Happens to everyone… don’t sweat it.
If you have tummy issues, excess gas or something, take some pro-biotics.
Sex is messy, and awkward… it need be done with a serious sense of humor. (see what I did there?).
amalgaman: My current partner accidentally farted during an intense orgasm. She was embarrassed as hell. I didn’t care at all. She apologized for days, even though I kept telling her that I had already forgotten about it (because I had).
What sucks is that she would squirt before that happened, but doesn’t now 🙁
lordoftoastonearth: This isn’t 100% the same thing, but sometimes when I finger or fuck my bf he’s like “oh hold on” and then either rips one bc he had to in the first place, or bc I accidentally pushed air on. Honestly, no problem at all. You just continue.
Stellabonez: Thank you everybody! You guys are awesome and I definitely don’t feel as bad about it anymore
Howie19147: That’s so funny it’s great!
MadeAccJustToAnswer: Guess you’ll have to stick a plug in there 😉
MrsSassafrass: I’ve definitely farted during sex. He doesn’t even seem to notice when I know he had to of so he obviously doesn’t care. It’s in the moment, no big deal. I used to be really nervous about it myself though for sure. It just took time for me to slowly get over it.
CaptainZin: Just don’t do it during oral