Always shocked when men still find me sexy
Tl;dr: ladies and gents your imperfections aren’t inherently unattractive. Don’t let them hold you back in the bedroom.
I’m a young woman (21). Im not unattractive
However I have a lot of skin blemishes. I have PCOS which means I’m also more hairy than most women. I have to go through a lot of hair removal constantly. This leaves my skin very irritated at times. I’m also biracial with very curly hair so I’m prone to ingrowns.
This has caused my skin to have its fair share of imperfections. Especially along my jawline bc I have hirsutism. I’ve slowly said ‘screw it’ to constantly wearing makeup around partners. If they’re over at my place for a while and we’re just sitting around I take it off so I can cuddle and such without worrying about makeup everywhere.
Still, despite feeling as though I always look better with makeup, I consistently get compliments about how I look better without.
I tend to date conventionally attractive men, so this is always a shock. Despite being comfortable with myself I am aware that they could get a less blemished girl no problem.
I also have stretch marks due to PCOS related rapid weight gain and subsequent loss (go me!). Still, most of my partners have enjoyed them, some even enjoying caressing the texture of them on my hips (where all of them are).
My insecurities used to hold me back a lot. I wouldn’t let people touch me in certain places or see me in good lighting without makeup. I used to skip out on physical relations in general if someone tried to touch my face when I felt like I hadn’t shaved in a while. When I decided to stop listening to that little voice my confidence grew because I realized: “people still want to screw me (and spend time with me) even when I feel my worst.
I get more adventurous in the bedroom. I have better sex. I am seen as more attractive due to this confidence as well.
Go get you some, and don’t worry about anything but having a good time
talkinboutfuckin: >Tl;dr: ladies and gents your imperfections aren’t inherently unattractive. Don’t let hem hold you back in the bedroom.
A lot of the time they aren’t even noticed. I’m too busy taking in the parts I am attracted to to really care about anything else.
ninriel: I don’t have pcos but still have a lot of little hairs on my jawline and under my chin that I’m really insecure about.. I really needed to hear this, thank you
MrSagro: Thank you for sharing! I’m glad you have found this freedom!
Kimrg: Thank you for sharing. Full agreement
drumcorpsbitch: Wait what? You were humble bragging 3 days ago about how you find yourself pretty attractive and that you pulled decent guys all the time…