This Is What You Need To Do To Make Her Want Sex
I have recently been having a run of bad luck with women. I’m not sure if it’s my style that needs to be retouched or because I’ve recently lost most of my hair, but as of late, it has become more difficult to convince women to have sex with me.
No matter what I do or say, or how much I beg, women just don’t end up giving me the chance to pleasure them. Now I can understand if it were with women I just met, but I’m referring to women that I flirt with constantly and have very sexual conversations with over the phone.
Help Player, how can I convince these women to take things a step further and have sex with me?
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Swing a pendulum back and forth in front of them and say the following: “You’re getting sleepy. Your eyes are becoming heavy and you’re feeling tired. Close your eyes and sleep. When I snap my fingers you will awake, remove your clothing and have sex with me.”Okay, now snap back to reality. Sorry, but it’s just not that simple. Before I begin, the most important thing you need to wrap your brain around is human psychology. People, especially women, hate being told what to do. In fact, the more you try to convince them to do something, the more they will resist.
That’s because people in general like to feel like they’re in control and there is nothing that says you’re in control more than doing the opposite of what someone is telling you to do. That’s why, for example, some young girls date older men when their parents forbid them from dating altogether.
the magic formula
So the plan is not to convince women to have sex with you, but rather make it a challenge for them to bed you. In fact, the magic formula is the complete opposite of what most men usually get caught up in, which I refer to as the beg trap .In other words, stop trying to convince her to sleep with you, but rather make her think that she has to convince you .
The fact of the matter is that, in most cases, a woman decides if she’s going to have sex with you before you even get the chance to think “nice breasts.” Imagine how she’ll feel when you actually make it a challenge for her. It’s not at all what she’s accustomed to. Indeed, she probably thought you’d be an easy conquest, but you’re going to show her that you’re not and if she wants you in her bed, she’s going to have to work for it.
Do you see where I’m headed with this?
So the objective of the game is not to convince her to have sex with you (she already made up her mind when she met you); your objective is to avoid sabotaging the whole process by begging, sounding desperate or doing all those other absolute “don’ts.”
However, there are a few things that you can do to accelerate the process:
1- Build a reputation
It is imperative that you always treat a woman like gold when making love to her by drowning her in passion. By giving the session your all every time, you can be sure you’ll earn the reputation of a good lover. When word gets around, you can be sure that other women will want a taste of that spicy kielbasa. Just remember not to do the bragging yourself; let the ladies (who naturally love to gossip) take care of that for you.
2- Always look your best
Most women are picky, materialistic and have a weak spot for fashionable men. If you don’t take the time to groom yourself, stay clean and dress to impress the ladies, why in the world would they ever want to dirty their hands with you? Either play the game, or go play in the sandbox.
3- Make women feel comfortable around you
If all you do is talk about sex when you’re around women, then you might make some of them very uncomfortable. Instead, concentrate your conversations on other topics such as your work, friends and hobbies. The idea is to make it seem as though the last thing on your mind is to have sex with this particular beauty. This works really well if she already knows that you’re a good lover (see number 1).
4- Use charm
Charisma is simply the art of letting someone know that you feel good about them, without an ulterior motive. Exert confidence, not cockiness. Be selfless. You should not ask for anything in return, not even feedback. Don’t be sexual, be welcoming.
5- Be honest
The last thing you want to do is make a woman believe that you’re flirting with her because you’re interested in a relationship. Make it clear that you’re not interested in dating, but have been longing for the company of a “real” woman and that “real” women are very hard to find. This should give her a hint to rise up to the challenge, especially if she sees that you would never settle for less.
6- Develop your sex appeal
Charm, confidence and friendliness emit sex appeal, but throw a good physique into the mix and you’ll have a lethal combination that’ll make women quiver for you.
Make her feel hot, show her that you have a lineup and more…
7- Make her feel sexy around you
She might feel a little thick around the waist, but no matter what, every time you see her, she always looks damn sexy and you always let her know it by saying things like, “Wow, every time I see you you’re looking better and better. What’s your secret?”
8- Introduce competition
If she wasn’t sure about playing with you, well she’d better hurry up and make up her mind as your value just went up because of the increased demand for your gratifying services. In other words, don’t be shy to tell her about the other ladies in your life. Just don’t forget to mention that you’re not very interested in them.
Flirting involves being confident, playful, fun, and mysterious. Flirting involves your whole body — eyes (look directly at her), hands (put your hand on her shoulder), mouth (smile), and ears (listen). Combine everything and show her that you are really interested in her.
10- Use a negative hit
You know how much you can’t stand it when a woman tells you, “I like you as a friend”? Well women hate it too. So give them a little taste of their own medicine by giving her the hint that she’s just too much of a “good girl” for you to take things past the flirting stage. Say something like, “I think you’re just too virtuous for me.”
11- Tell her a story
Reveal that you’ve had enough of women who don’t know how to please a man and that you’ve decided to take a vow of celibacy until you meet a “real” woman who knows how to please her mate. Believe me, most women will, for lack of a better term, rise to the occasion.
12- Tease her
Some of the biggest turn-ons for women are anticipation, excitement and the tension derived from not knowing what to expect. Women love pleasant surprises. Next time, tell her you have a little surprise waiting for her but you’ll show it to her next week.
13- Kiss her
Ask just about any woman and she’ll agree that a perfect kiss will seal the sexual deal. If you stick your tongue down her throat, she’ll probably pull away in repulsion. On the other hand, if you kiss her gently and slowly, then pull away and look into her eyes, then kiss her again slowly and passionately — you will definitely start a fire inside of her. Remember, everything starts with a kiss.
open her eyes, shut your mouth
You might think that in order to bed her, you need to convince her how good you are in bed, or encourage her to take vengeance on her boyfriend’s infidelity by having sex with you. But the reality is that she’s a grown woman and already knows all those things.
The best way to get any woman to have sex with you is by making all the right moves and letting her perceive that she’s making the decision to sleep with you based on what she sees (not hears) from you.