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Why does it turn me (29F) on imagining my boyfriend (31M) having sex with other females. I am bisexual and girls I find attractive, I want to watch them have sex too. Is this healthy?
As the title says, I guess it’s a cuckqueen fetish but it confuses me a lot. I love him, love having sex with him. He’s pretty good in bed and has a decent sized cock.
I’m bisexual and very attracted to femnine girls, you know the ones with tonnes of makeup, sexy hair, lips, big butts and boobs. They drive me wild. I’ve only been with 3 girls, but they’ve all be super hot.
I often show my boyfriend pics of girls like this, hoping he’d find them super hot like I do. He often does, but doesn’t express it as much as I would.
I have told him that I like him checking out girls, and I like the idea of him flirting with other women. But he’s never acted on it because I think he fears the consequences because he always says he doesn’t feel the need to.
Recently, we went out dancing. We’ve been doing Kizomba (sensual latin dance) and we’ve been training in a class where there’s no real attractive female. However, last weekend we went to a Kizomba party and when I was in the bathroom, super cute girl approached him to dance. He did for a couple songs until he saw me and left her to dance with me.
I can’t explain my reaction. I was jealous as hell but didn’t show it. She was hotter than me, with an amazing body. And she was clearly into my bf. For whatever inexplicable reason I told him go dance with her more and he did. They looked so sexy dancing together and I know they were both getting aroused. And so was I.
I can’t explain my feelings. It makes me so horny, but also so jealous. That night on the way home I was pissed at him, but also insanely attracted to him and we still ended up having amazing sex that night.
I think my jealousy subsides if I know the girl also wants me and not just my bf.
My last girlfriend was actually one of my boyfriends closest childhood female friends. They always saw each other as siblings somewhat, but I was all over her. Also, yes I with them both at the same time. My boyfriend is very understanding of my bisexual needs and was actually quite pleased I picked his friend to be my gf. We lasted successfully for 2 years until she moved, got a boyfriend and got married.
We never had a threesome, but my boyfriend and her, especially when drunk, used to be all over each other and there was some making out, groping, grinding. It NEVER made me jealous. Even when my friends saw them and told me I should keep an eye on him, I’d feel proud and horny inside.
Am I fucked up for thinking like this? I can totally trust my bf and I know he’d never do anything I didn’t want.
Many of you would say involving a 3rd party/ies will change things. Well the time, I caught him and my ex-gf basically groping and mutually masturbating each other on the dancefloor……didn’t change anything for us. In a way it made us closer and we sometimes joke about it casually without any weirdness or jealously (from me).
So my main concern is whether this is a normal and healthy fetish? Or is it something I should suppress?
nathlee123: I don’t see how it can’t be healthy if you both were in to it. I’d love to watch my girlfriend with another woman, I think she’s curious but never push it as I would rather she told me.
If she wanted me to go with another woman whilst she only watched, I’d be more than fine with it as long as I knew it wouldn’t jeopardise what we have. This would be amazing for me. I think most men in here would agree they’d be more than fine with it if there wasn’t a risk it’d come between you.
I think most of us (myself included) don’t get to really achieve our sexual fantasies and desires. I think you have an open mind and know what you want, nothing wrong with that.
evertravel: If this is how you feel, then just own it as nothing is wrong with you. My wife very much likes to watch me with other woman. She would not classify herself as a cuckqueen as she is not into the humiliation, control ideas that go with that. She just likes to see me perform and enjoy myself. Also, she is not bi, but she will be fully involved as well. Anything you can think a FFM threesome could do sexually, we have done it. It is great fun and all of this really turns her on.
If you do pursue this, I would offer a couple suggestions. First, talk about everything before an encounter. What is on the table, what is off, etc. Second, make sure you each know a safe word that will stop whatever feels uncomfortable in the situation. Third, I really suggest that you don’t do this with anyone close to the relationship (like a friend, etc). Find an outsider. This keeps the distance and just makes it more about you two. Finally, just have a great time together and enjoy everything.
Drop_: It can be healthy and there’s nothing wrong with you. Lucky for you your BF doesn’t abuse it.
Maybe look into some stuff swinging or ffm threesomes and talk some about it with him once you have it sorted out in your head.
Emack76: A lot of people share this kink. It’s definitely not cuckqueaning because that usually has some element of degradation or humiliation. You are not into that. It’s more of a hothusband kink (similar to hotwife).
A lot of swingers I know enjoy this concept, though not the kink in particular. It also makes a difference if they’re bisexual, or not. For the wife and I it amounts to a few things. These are my perspective, but it works in reverse for her as well since we both have adventures with other people:
– Compersion is real. I like seeing or knowing that she is being sexually pleased.
– It’s an ego boost for me when my wife thanks me for ‘allowing’ her to be pleased by other men. We both agree that it wouldn’t enjoyable without that permission to have fun. She also dotes over me a lot in the days before and after she has play dates.
– It makes me feel good to be desired by other women.
– It makes me feel proud to know that she’s so desired by men.
– **The reconnection sex after either of us have been out playing is hot af!!!**