Mexican Model Lili Brillianti
How to get better at touching my boyfriend?
I’ve never been with anyone before him. He’s really good at touching me in creative, sexy ways, but I have a hard time being proactive and creative when touching him. Most of the time it feels like I’m copying him 🙁
One thing that I have no clue about is the stage between ”not touching his dick” and ”giving him a hand job”. When you’re with a girl, you’d rub on the outside of her underwear, touch her labia, etc but I don’t know what the equivalent for touching a guy would be! Should I just grab it (
pull it, squeeze it, bop it) ?
Anyone have any tips?
kismetandkarma: So many places… Start at the top (or bottom) and work your way down (or up). Take the time to slowly glide your hands over him and learn about the wonderful things that make his body his (beauty marks, moles, musculature, bone structure, etc.)
Use light touches, then grab forcefully if he and you are so inclined.
I particularly enjoy nuzzling the inside of my love’s neck and running my tongue along his collar bone while my fingers stroke his inner thigh and his Adonis lines.
Simply put, worship his body slowly and you’ll learn what makes him ache for your touch. Good luck.
sandybeachclam: I’ve never had a guy complain about touching his dick lol. I like feeling a dick go from soft to hard so I tend to touch a lot.
I think you handle it in a teasing way to build up his expectations. Stroke it a bit then move your hand to his thigh or stomach.
uk_ex: As Sandybeachcalm says, what guy complains when a girl touches his dick?
I particularly like a very light touch of fingers running up and down on the underside of my cock, I find that most stimulating. Also gently pulling back the foreskin followed by very gentle touches around the exposed end. Try using lube or handcream with it.
excitedspoon: When he has pants on, I like to tease him by gently squeezing him… GENTLY
itxtalone: The only way to get better is to just touch it. Just be naked with each other (not having sex) and just touch it. Just gently glide the tips of your finger along his shaft and tip, even a few slow stokes of you hand woud be good. Go easy on the balls until he is really “in the mood” some guys are really ticklish .
The diffrience between touching and hand job are intent, speed, time, and lubrication.
Just practice, have fun. No guy will complain if you just want to feel his cock for practice