Things you didn’t know about sex
As for just some of the things I was surprised by:
Almost all women seem to enjoy male noise during sex (groans, moans, growling, whimpering, dirty talk, whispering into ears)
Missionary is a surprisingly popular position, despite everything I’ve heard of it being a “boring” position
There actually being meaningful differences between cut and uncut penises during sex
Cervix pounding unfortunately being a common issue for well-endowed guys (poor girls 🙁 )
Mimicking the alphabet during oral isn’t a totally terrible proposition for a guy’s 1st oral
Earlobes are almost as common an erogenous zone as the neck for a lot of people
People seem to care way less about herpes/HS1 than I’d initially assume they should
Semen dribbling out during ejaculation isn’t an uncommon occurrence for some guys
More people see/consider seeing prosititutes than previously thought, with much more positivity surrounding the experience than assumed too
Lubblobba: Earlobes and necks for men too please! My bf loves those zones way more than I do. In fact add that men love their body being paid attention to in the same way women do just as much as they do.
Nixie_D: I don’t know if I’ve learnt anything about sex, but I’ve certainly has confirmed about how attitudes about sex have shifted in a relatively short time.
How certain myths still persist, whilst others have morphed into something else. How kink has become more mainstream (for better or worse). How porn is a terrible way for today’s youth to learn about sex. And how parents and educators need to step up.
But then technology has developed at such a rapid pace during my lifetime. I mean, I remember life before the internet, before Google… before Reddit. It was dark times, fun, but dark times.
Eulenbaby: The most important thing I learned here is that there is no right or wrong when it comes to sex between consenting adults. Only the people involved decide what is ok and what’s not – which really boils down to communication being the be all and end all when it comes to sex.
(Btw my gf told me that for her, mimicking the alphabet actually **is** a terrible way for oral :p)
Edit: Oh, and I had no idea that there are so many people with so many different sex issues. It was kind of a relief to see I wasn’t the only one with lots of unanswered questions and insecurities.
expolowodor2: that having another dude bang your wife while you film is somehow a W ?
Reve_Inaz: Can you elaborate on the circumcision differences?
Jwach: Penis size. I was incredibly naive due to a Mormon upbringing. I came across a penis size chart on here a few years ago and was a little surprised.
Awwsomazing: I think learning sex from Reddit can be extremely misleading. Everyone is so idealistic here. Most women say they love sex and adamandlty demand that they’have the same sex drive as most guys including interest in one night stands. Clearly there is a huge disconnect between fantasy online and reality in the real world.
Starky_Love: Despite there being billions of people on this planet, all with varying tastes and fetishes, there’s still individuals who think they’re weird because they like kissing and being romantic with their sexual partner.
mtfx: That a large number of women like men’s hands. I have seen many many a comment about turn ons, and hands are often included.