How do you show your SO that you want to have sex or what signs do you give your SO when you’re really horny? What do you to seduce him?
Saucysaarthe2nd: I look at him. If that doesn’t help, I’ll say “hey” in a way that lets him know it’s on. Both of these aren’t seducing him, just ways to ‘give him the signal’ without actually saying “hey yo wanna bone?”
If I want to properly seduce him I approach him wearing nothing but a necklace or lingerie and drop to my knees before him. I usually don’t get any further in my seduction ritual because by then my head will be banging against the headboard.
48291648593: My SO will put her hands in my front pockets or rub my thigh and slowly make her way to my crotch. If we’re spooning, she wiggles her ass against me. Sometimes, she just flat tells me she wants me. A lot of it depends on our mood and level of inebriation and knowing each other.
1972POV: Too old for that seduction nonsense. *”Hey, wanna do it tonight?”*
EllaSimone15: I’ll give my partner a fuck ton of physical based compliments (I don’t usually give compliments on physical appearance unless we’re dressed up for special occasions). But I’ll say things like “wow, baby you look so hot right now” “how do I have the hottest guy in the world”
I’ll playfully kiss his neck, rub on his muscles, and tracing my fingers along the lining of his dick over his clothes.
He can typically get the point from there.
anoliveanarrow: I send dirty memes through text, ask to cuddle while laying in bed, or become extra touchy-feely than normal.
If I want to seduce him, I go dress up.
kkmks121: According to my SO I have a look that I give him of I want to have sex. If he’s sitting down usually I come up to him and start rubbing my face and head against his neck or chest and work down to his thighs. If we are laying down and I’m really horny I’ll just start rubbing my self against his ass or leg and start biting his ear. If I have been horny all day I might ask at some point if he wants to fuck me tonight. But most of the time it’s more caresses, rubbing, and kissing than words.
socorra: If I don’t use actual words, I’ll just make it very clear by running my hands all over his body, trying to kiss him, kissing other parts of his body, rubbing his back/shoulders, crawling into his lap or hanging onto him like a monkey lol. I don’t try to be subtle about it if I’m really horny.
CzechYourDanish: Petting, lightly brushing his collarbone with my fingernails,breathing hot on his neck and earlobes. If that does work, I take my shirt off.
kburs: Hugging him from behind and rubbing the anterior of his body, wiggling my ass against him while he’s doing other things & especially if we are spooning. I also sometimes just put a toy in or some nipple clamps to use as a “peek”
crushenit: I’ll tell him I’m horny, or I’ll ask him if he wants to fuck (I’m generally the one initiating), or if we’re in bed I’ll sneakily slip off my underwear and wiggle my butt against him until he responds. It’s all pretty obvious.
Owl__Lady: Just grab it.
shyqueenbee: According to my boyfriend I have a “look” — biting my bottom lip, glancing up through my eyelashes and then quickly away. I never noticed I did it until he pointed it out but apparently that’s what I do. If I definitely want to seduce him, I’ll wear something a bit revealing or some sexy underwear beneath something nondescript so he’s pleasantly surprised — like a lacy thong under a big t-shirt, etc. But if I’m *really* in the mood, I just tell him!
Fullfrontalphalanges: I use pick up lines on my lover, the worse the better.
My personal favorite:
“What’s a guy like you doing in a place like this with his pants still on?”
Just tell your SO that you want to smack your privates together. Being upfront is better than tiptoeing around he topic.