I [50F] have just experienced a ‘gushing’ for the first time. What is it?
So, last night I tried out a new vibrating toy. I’m not usually into vibes, but this one was given to me and is highly acclaimed so I gave it a try.
It’s an odd little toy. Instead of just vibrating, it actually lightly sucks in the clit and throbs around it. What a different feeling from a toy. (side note – i’ve had guys suck on my clit while lightly pressing in with their teeth at the base of it…..love it ….and this toy has that same kind of feeling)
There are 11 speeds on this thing and I started at the lowest setting and quickly moved up to about speed 5. In less than a minute….well the only way I can describe it is that something ‘gushed’ out of me. But, i wasn’t having an orgasm.
It wasn’t urine, as I had just gone to the bathroom before getting started. And it didn’t smell like urine.
It confused me, as I’ve never experienced this before. And it wasn’t my normal wetness that happens at orgasm. As a matter of fact, after I stopped, laid down a towel and started again…it was another 3 minutes or so of using the toy before having an orgasm. The gushing didn’t happen again.
Any clue what this was?
Tjaak: Thats squirt, female ejaculation.
WayneCider: > It’s an odd little toy. Instead of just vibrating, it actually lightly sucks in the clit and throbs around it.
Is that the womanizer? I’ve had it on my Amazon wishlist for ages wondering if I should get that for my wife. Good, huh?
neuenono: I agree with others that it sounds like female ejaculation. Regarding you peeing before, [this](https://drjengunter.wordpress.com/2015/01/10/squirting-during-sex-is-urine-new-study/) summarizes some relevant research. Women in the study peed before sex, and were still able to squirt a massive amount. I think female ejaculate is distinct from urine, even though it comes from the bladder. Drink enough water and your pee is basically warm water (try it some time if you’re skeptical), and I think this is similar. I think it’s nature’s way of getting you to pee after sex (preventing UTIs).
alevei: I have this toy as well. I’d say I squirt 85% of the time with it. Amazing toy. Sorry I can’t contribute more to this chat but just wanted to share my joy at this toy. But now it has made me super eager to meet a man who can give me oral like that because I haven’t had a guy who has been good at it yet…
docturmishii: There’s a huge misconception that squirting = orgasm. It does mean you’re enjoying yourself, don’t get me wrong, but I can see where your confusion is coming from if it happens and you haven’t came yet. I’m glad you finally got to discover the wonderful, messy world of ” female ejaculate”. Thanks for the toy’s name ~
Mikeytruant850: You’re 50 and you’re completely unaware of squirting? No offense, that’s just fascinating.