Actress Marie Gillain, Sexy Childlike MILF
Marie Gillain is a Belgian actress. In 1996 Gillain received the Prix Romy Schneider. She is single but has two daughters, Dune and Vega.
(25F) Can’t be “sexy” non-jokingly
I (25F) have been dating my bf (27M) for almost 2 years and we do have quite a bit of sex but it’s always very lighthearted and “friendly” almost rather than lusty and passionate. He says he finds me really sexy but we’ve talked about the fact that Im sexy in a cute, “chill girl” way rather than in a lusty, hot way (idk if that makes sense). We were also friends before we started dating so that’s always been our dynamic. I think part of the problem is that I really never take myself seriously at all in any part of my life which is surely a defense mechanism…so I’m able to be playful sexy but never actually intense sexy… I don’t know how I would, for example, wear lingerie and strip for my boyfriend in a non-joking way but I REALLY REALLY want to…it just makes me quite uncomfortable and I revert back to doing it as a joke…how can I get more comfortable taking myself seriously sexually?
TLDR I want to wear lingerie and strip for my bf but can’t take myself seriously enough to do it without reverting to joking around
GulliblePlankton: Take smaller steps.
Go find yourself som hot lingerie first. Make sure you are comfortable and happy with the way you look in lingerie. Try to find an outfit in which you think “daaaaaamn”. Then surprise your boyfriend with that.
The stripping comes later. I’m no expert, but you can try to find instructional sfw-videos on the internet and see what moves you can do. Don’t worry, you’re gonna do great! And then he’s gonna do you, probably also very great.
HuckleberryPoundTown: I’d start with some dirty talk if your sex life doesn’t already include it. Start slowly and add more and more until you’re saying serious (if meaningless) stuff through out the entire encounter. Kinda push the jokey stuff outta the way and redefine sex as a more honest/raw endeavor. Odds are, if you’re not used to being serious, he isn’t either. If you change your whole demeanor unexpectedly, you’ll catch him flat-footed. You don’t want to get yourself built up, only for him to revert to jokes because he isn’t prepared to match your sincerity.
0perose: Just start by saying something dirty in his ear when he can’t do anything about it.
I had an ex that would tease me like this. We would be out and she would come over and whisper ” you look hot I want to fuck you so bad right now” then she would smile and walk away.
Sometimes giving me a knowing smile throughout the night By the time we got back to my place it was passionate game on. She was cute but so fucking hot.
whiskeyforone: Am I going crazy or did I read this exact post like a month ago