Into: Welcome one and all to my personal favorite challenge, Fucking on the first date. I’m not here to argue with you which girls will put out on the first date, the morality of it, or anything like the sort. AWALT for a reason. Pre warning there is a lot of information to cover in this post, it is quite lengthy but worth the read.
This guide assumes several things:
- You have read, memorized, internalized, the side bar. Including books such as, “The Art of Seduction” – Robert Greene, 48 laws of power – Robert Greene, and “The Way of the Superior Man” – David Deida
- You can pass shit tests while being funny without getting offended.
- You understand Kino and how to use it.
- You are somewhat charismatic/funny/confident
- You understand and exude the following: Abundance Mentality, Outcome Independence, Amused Mastery, Good push pull
- You don’t come across as thirsty/needy/desperate
- You know how to tease a bitch
- Solid frame
- You are the prize
- You have decent SMV
Or simply put, Be a Man worth fucking, and a Man others aspire to become.
This chick goes by the name Maura and I must say I admire her…
Step 1. Open Her, make your first impression, and get her Contact info:
Open Her Up: (Make that bitch smile) Some people will try to break this shit down into a science. What you say doesn’t matter as much as how you say it. The best canned line in the world won’t help you out if you deliver it like thirsty, weak, self conscious, beta chump. As long as your open up using the following guidelines you should be in the clear:
- Be confident, Charismatic, and plausibly deniable
- Do not under any circumstances come off as needy, overly interested, thirsty, or desperate
The First Impression: is going to make or break the interaction. I highly suggest the book, “The Charismatic Myth”, Gives some absolutely killer tips on how to warm people up to you. Basically, you want to make them feel good about themselves talking to you, not make yourself feel good talking to them. Personally I think you should keep your interaction short and sweet. You want to give them a taste (mmm delicious) of who you are, just enough so they get an idea and want more, but not so much that they get the whole idea and loose interest.
Tips for conversation:
- Be genuine, women are good at sniffing out fakes
- Keep your thoughts/works/actions in alignment
- Stay away from depressing topics (You don’t want them to associate you with the negative topic)
- Don’t ever give a straight answer (Make up some ridiculous shit)
- Actually enjoy yourself while you talk to them
- Be Present in the conversation without being overly interested
- Don’t try to impress or one up during conversation (Nicethingyoucanthave)
- Women’s conversation centered around EMOTION AND FEELING while mens conversation is centered at resolving things to a point or specific topic.
Get contact info:As soon as you can feel the energy in the conversation dip you want to make your exit. I always use, “Hey we should talk again sometime,” (her – Yes), How can I get a hold of you? If she starts making some strange face she probably doesn’t actually want to talk with you again and only said that to be polite. Take the hint and hit up someone else. Otherwise 9/10 times (if you made a good first impression) They’ll give you their number or equivalent. Do not give them your number, You’ll probably never hear from them again. It’s up to you to make contact.
- Note: Do not accept snap chat, Instagram, or any other “follower” based Social Media unless you want to be instantly put in the beta orbiter category.
Step 2. Set up the meeting.
I will be honest with you and let you know that this the point where I meet the most resistance. I’ve tried a lot of stuff that hasn’t worked for me but here is some stuff that does: (Note: If you have any suggestions in this regard I’d love to hear it)
Be Direct: I will always suggest (Never ask) some reason (plausibly deniable) to “meet up” (I never call it a “date” it’s too serious and too much pressure for most women, besides most women aren’t classy enough for dates anyways.) Example – “Let’s make dinner together Thursday”. If she’s interested she’ll take a bite, “What time” “Thursdays bad, but how about Friday?” The girls that want to meet you will make a noticeable effort to do so. If someone’s always busy every time you suggest to meet up, you should probably take the hint.** I usually don’t ask questions like, “When are you free?” or, “What’s your schedule?” Unless we’ve already met and fucked. It gives her a chance to think (women are bad at this) and make a choice (women are worse at this). * Remember: out come independence, and abundance mentality are key
The Venue: This totally depends on your area, your personal strengths/skills/situation, and your tastes. Use what you have, and avoid what you don’t. If you can’t dance, don’t take her ass dancing. If you have a motorcycle, take that bitch for a ride. If you have a (good) reputation at a local bar or venue, take her ass there. A traditional dinner is boring, No one after a hour and a half of talking with no escalation suddenly decides they want to fuck you. Pick a place with some sort of adventure, the further you can get from reality the better (without going overboard). Take that bitch to laser tag. Take her to a walk in the woods and fuck her on a park bench. Take that bitch out to drinks then get dinner after you’ve already felt her up (Then feel her up more at dinner), Cook dinner at your place (My personal favorite), do anything you can to break away from the traditional dinner for two stereotypical date. Throw some danger and adventure at that ho.
- Note: Make sure you choose a venue where you either have a hotel nearby, or you can get back to your place easily. I don’t recommend fucking in the car because you can get stains in your upholstery and charges from the police if you’re caught. I also don’t recommend fucking in the woods because mosquitos.
Step 3. Meet up, and have fun together:
Be prepared for flakes, and don’t take it personally when it happens to you. She’s the one missing out, not you.
When you meet up you want to look good, feel good, smell good, taste good, sound good, and be good in general. Even before you go out on the date you should be looking in the mirror reminding yourself how lucky this bitch is to go out with you. You are the prize. Since I live in Tokyo, I always meet at a train station It’s a good public place and no one is worried about getting murdered or kidnapped there. (But you could pick her up at her house, or just meet her somewhere.) As soon as we meet up I make sure to be on top of my game, make sure my posture is confident and natural, my voice is slow and low, my eye contact on point, and my smile cocky and sexy. The key here is to actually enjoy yourself while on your, “meet up” Find something about her that makes you smile. Do something you enjoy Touch her legs, her ass, her neck, kiss her because you enjoy doing so. This night is about no. 1. You.
Note: Stay away from boring conversation/questions. Accusations/teasing is way more fun. Don’t be straight forward with her, women hate it. Be aloof, be vague, keep and maintain your sense of mystery for as long as possible. Be a breath of fresh air to her life.
As long as you’re not talking too much about yourself, using plenty of kino (at the right times, don’t touch her face too soon this will set you back), along with everything else I mentioned at the beginning of the post, you should be doing pretty well by now and seeing it in her body language/facial expressions. The next step is critical and requires complete confidence.
- Note: As soon as you can land the kiss go for it, getting her buying temperature as high as possible as fast as possible will only make your job easier (BigCityTruth)
- 2nd Note: Change venues (to a different bar, park, etc…) to give her the impression that you’ve known her for longer then she actually has. 2-3 hours can feel like you’ve known each other for days if you play this right. I suggest no more then 3 different venues total. (Also it’s fun)
Step 4. Bring that bitch back to your place:
(in response to question in comments):
There isn’t a set time between you meet the girl and when you should invite her back to your place. Every girl is different and warms up at different speeds. (You can never be 100% sure), but you’ll know when to invite her back to your place based on the reactions you’re getting from her; How well does she respond to your kino (Does she love it?), How much does she laugh at your jokes? (even the ones that aren’t funny?), Is she giving you The LookTM?Is she overall responsive and cooperative? Has she been enjoying herself? Don’t second guess yourself here, when you feel like you should ask her, do it.
Even if you’re not getting a overwhelming list of positive responses from her, you should still ask her anyways. What do you have to loose? There are plenty of times where women we’re playing hard to get and showed almost no interest and still came back to my place for a ONS.
I play guitar and sing really well (After years of lessons and embarrassing myself). I use this as my plausible deniable invitation. It doesn’t really matter how you invite them, as long as you sell it well. “Hey you should come back to my place for some drinks/listen to me sing/check out my super cool___/try out my awesome tap water.” She might feel uncertain, but just be confident and she will come along with you. Anything besides a hard no is a yes. Her- “I’m not sure…” You – “Cmon let’s go, you’ll love it (:”.
As soon as she agrees get the fuck on the move because the clock has started ticking. You want to keep her temperature up as much as possible, Kino, Teasing, etc… on your way back to your place. My apartment is actually around 30-40 mins away (20 minute train ride, 10 minute walk) from most of my “meet ups”, but as long as you keep her entertained during this time you’re in the clear.
- Note: I also down play how far away my apartment is and tell them it’s super close. Haha. (don’t give them a straight answer)
Step 5. Sign the contract and do the deed: When a girl comes back to my place as soon as the door closes she has signed the, “I want to get fucked tonight” Contract. Let’s be honest, what girl comes to your place that isn’t comfortable with the idea of getting fucked by you? (Unless you’re a super beta orbiter). Depending how the night went (or if the plan was to cook dinner.) I’ll pour some drinks, play a couple of songs on the guitar and sing for her (works wonders), and once she’s comfortable I go for the first kiss. If she’s hesitant to kiss you, wrestle with her, kiss her neck and ears, tickle her, keep escalating Kino (Pull, Pull, Push) until she’s comfortable with kissing you. (Make sure your breath is fresh).
Kissing: Obviously before you kiss her you want to make sure she doesn’t have a cold sore or anything like that. Honestly if she did I might just not even ask her to come home because I find that shit disgusting and do not want any chance of getting that shit. You can do a lot of shit, hold her chin between your index finger and your thumb, stroke her hair away while playing with her neck and ears. Once I get the first kiss, I make it short, and sweet with little to no tongue. I pull away first (always). Then I tease her. They key with making out is to stop before she wants to, then tease her. (Cat string theory: Dangle a string above a cat and they’ll go crazy for it, give it to them outright and they loose interest). Really make her work for that kiss with you. I genuinely enjoy kissing, if you don’t maybe you should give that bitch a breath mint or something.
- Note: Cuddle with that bitch works every time (Xander756)
Progressing to sex: After you’ve started kissing it’s pretty much a done deal. Put your leg in between hers and push up against her cunt. Rock her back and forth while pushing your knee gently into her crotch. Put your hands all over her, Find her hot spots and hit them. Make her moan like a cougar in heat. Pull back every once and a while (if only just to tease her) to make you want her even more. Sticking your hand in her pants from behind and rubbing her pussy that way is a great way to push forward. Once she is moaning then you’ve got the green light to tear her clothes off like a savage animal and the rest is up to you. Make sure you own her, Make her say your name, choke her, pull her hair (at the roots) Dominate her and own her (if only for that night). I’m willing to bet she’ll return your call the next day.
- Note: I really do enjoy my, “Meet ups” with women. From Start to Finish. I do go in without any expectations other then enjoying myself and letting her in on the ride. I think this is one of the most important aspects is that really you need to be enjoying yourself to be charismatic and funny. If you’re still in the anger phase this might be difficult for you. (Use that anger for LIFTING)
Thank you for reading, this was a very lengthy post it’s hard to cover everything in one post (Without writing a novel). If you see something here you don’t understand I suggest you learn it ASAP, or ask me and I’ll try to explain it better. If you think something is missing from this post let me know and I’ll consider adding it. I hope this benefits everyone who reads for it and remember, Don’t be afraid to push for what you want.