Just as a man prides himself on his cunnilingus skills, a woman likes to believe she can blow his trumpet well too. But what works for one guy, might not work for the next.
His sensitive spot
Like a matchstick in every way but size, his penis is ‘hot’ at the top and the rest is his ‘wood’. The head, called the ‘glans’ is his most sensitive part. The corona, the rim or ridge of flesh that makes up the bottom of his head is also very sensitive. Some men can orgasm by having only their head stimulated; others will need a firm touch (hand or mouth) on their shaft too.
The Head Kiss
This move allows you to really focus on that sensitive head. With your lips pursed, kiss the very top of his penis, then slowly allow your lips to open up and you move further down his penis head. Stop just as you reach his corona, squeeze your lips tightly together, then go back to the top.
You can start this in the same way as the Head Kiss, but when you get further down, let your tongue press against the underside of his penis and, taking care to wrap your upper lips around your upper teeth, try swallowing. This should create an amazing suction feeling on his penis head.
The Tongue Push
With him inside your mouth, use your tongue to work the most sensitive part of his penis: his head. Wrap your upper lips over your upper teeth and with your tongue extended out of your mouth, push it upwards and in circular motions. Add pressure with your upper lips too, or insert two fingers so you can massage his head while preventing your teeth from meeting his flesh.
The Twist and Twirl
This is a move to get him excited. Position your mouth over his penis, then swirl your tongue around his penis head one way, then the other. Punctuate your swirls with the occasional full suck, to give him a taste of what is to come, then keep teasing and titillating him with those swirly tongue moves.
The Long Lick
If you want to boost his ego, show him exactly how long his penis is by licking it from the very bottom to the very top repeatedly. This works best if you use your hand as well. Place your hand on the side of the penis furthest from your face, so you’ve got something to push against. Now using the flat of your tongue, lick him from his testicles all the way to the tip of his penis, making sure you apply pressure the entire time.
The Sideways Suck
If his penis was a sweet and juicy corn on the cob, this move is all about you eating him up. Using your hand underneath, again to give you something to push against, put your lips against his penis. Hold your lips so the inside, where it’s moist, is touching his penis and then move up and down him, sucking your lips in and out as you go.
The Soft One
Sometimes it’s great to start a BJ before he’s hard. Take him into your mouth (you’ll have to use your hands, else he’s likely to slip out!) and let his penis lie on top of your tongue. Gently swallow, making sure you don’t let your teeth come into contact with his manhood. Within seconds, your mouth will be full, so be prepared!
Make some noise!
Humming or just ‘mmming’ while you’re going down will add an extra sensation to the experience for him. It’ll also make him feel as though you’re loving it – a sure-fire way to make it feel great!
Spit is a great natural lubricant but it dries out far too quickly, so give yourself a break and invest in some tasty lube to help your blowjob efforts work more smoothly. We love Durex Play Very Cherry and Pina Colada lubes as well as the ID Juicy range (mint, strawberry, and many others). Both are available on Amazon.
Hands are indispensable when it comes to fellatio, they supply the pressure that often your tongue and lips can’t – but because you’re using them in combination with your tongue and lips, he gets to enjoy the softness and moistness he so loves. The easiest way to use your hands is simply to grip him around the shaft and place your mouth at the top. Now move your hands in time with your mouth, so that to him, it all feels like one movement. Be warned: this is a fast-track route to ejaculation!