What tips were game changers for you?
What really helped me was:
Pressing down on the pelvic area from the outside while fingering/penetrating to stimulate the G Spot. I think I read that somewhere on this sub
Pulling out close to the point of no return and fingering/going down on her instead, or continuing foreplay. Then changing positions. I know, this is so simple but I would usually just let myself cum
Consciously increasing my testosterone levels. I started lifting more, and heavier. Each rep I think of my SO and giving her an amazing time in bed, and this helped me lift harder. I focused on my sleep – consistent sleep times, bought black blinds from amazon, magnesium before bed, no screens an hour before bed but meditation, journaling or yoga instead. Cold showers every morning. Anything else to add?
SinSlayer: When going down on a woman, find the spot that makes her leg(s) twitch. Then suck that spot.
When you have sex with a woman for the first time, and you start in missionary, only give her 50% of your length. Then roll to your back and let her take it all
Start soft and slow. Finish fast and hard.
Make eye contact when she cums.
Always follow the FDL rule: She cums First. She cums During. She cums Last.
Sex doesn’t begin at intercourse and it doesn’t end at climax.
Can’t get her off with just oral? Add a few fingers and tickle her gspot.
Can’t get her off vaginally? Again, add a few fingers and tickle her clit.
Every woman has a dirty little slut inside her. Drag that bitch out by her hair!
VampArcher: I learned that most men are wildly excited when a women first initiates sex and talks dirty. I tried that and it works wonders.
LordRempleCat: I found that when going down on a girl, you make a ball of spit in your mouth, move it onto your tongue, then use that as natural lube. The more the better! It feels better for her and you, since it makes your tongue easier to glide over and into
ChaosKilledDinos94: That the good times don’t end with his orgasm, we can keep doing other stuff