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Why are women so much louder than men during sex? I️ [m23] absolutely love sex and barely make a sound, even during an orgasm. Every woman I’ve been with has been very vocal from start to finish.
leftcoastandcoffee: Google “Female copulatory vocalizations” and report back.
FWIW, women like it when men vocalize, too.
MrsJRF: When my eyes roll back into my head and the orgasm starts to build, my brain temporarily forgets we have neighbors and my clitoris and swollen lady parts are solely in charge of the moaning/grunting/screaming.
I’m told by my husband I screamed “omg pound my pussy baby, I want to be sore tomorrow from your cock!” I have no recollection of saying that and other choice “phrases”, hopefully gives the little old lady on the other side of our master bedroom wall a thrill to know her neighbor she exchanges pleasantries with occasionally gets broken in half by her husband’s dick and goes into a screaming stupor. I’m mommy with a cup of coffee and a wriggly toddler on the porch, but a horny, naughty bitch after dark– so she’s gotta know.
PositivelySexual: My theory is that men are generally socially conditioned to be reserved during sex whereas women are generally socially conditioned to be less so. Basically, traditional societal messaging tells men that to be masculine is to hide or always be in control of one’s emotions. The traditional societal view of feminine qualities is that it’s expected and OK to sometimes let your emotions run wild. It’s bullshit though, and I hate that men are shamed for being emotional and women are thought of as the weaker sex for the same. We aren’t Vulcans, we’re humans god damnit, and it’s healthy to show our emotions in the right situations.
Additionally, societal views have tended to prize women as icons of beauty and sexuality, whereas men have tended to be more prized for other things like their wealth, stability, and athletic ability. Being a beautiful, passionate, sexual male is often denigrated as less-masculine, and a lot of guys have intense discomfort or zero experience when trying to be that. It’s really unfortunate, because most women I think really like seeing that side of men come out during sex, but a lot of guys don’t realize this and think that making noise and being passionate during sex is emasculating or something. Just take a look at some streaming porn sites with comments — so often you see something like “I wish this guy would shut up” comments coming from insecure male posters, and “I love all the sounds he’s making” from female posters.
It’s not always the case, as plenty of women also do the dead fish thing and plenty of guys are highly vocal (myself included). I didn’t always used to be comfortable vocalizing, but I had a bit of a sexual awakening after a lot of introspection and I no longer hold back when I have sex now. Both my partner and I are much more satisfied with our sex lives as a result of this.
So in short, if you are a guy reading this, a lot of women really like it when their guys make noise and are not emotionally reserved during sex. Think about how lame it is to have sex when your female partner is dead fishing it. That’s kind of what it’s like when you don’t make any noise. It might feel a little weird at first, but just give it a try and I think you may be surprised at how much both you and your partner enjoy it.
Eunchii16: Porn and movies. The women are the show in porn and movies, if they were quiet it’d be weird and not as satisfying
IllustratedKat: Ever seen the Vagina Monologue “The Woman Who Loved to Make Vaginas Happy”? You’ll get a kick out of it.
throwaway15662: It’s gotta be natural or it’s just weird sounding.
I don’t think any woman prefers silence from her man. Try perhaps combine the pleasure feeling with your exhaling as you thrust. This is something small/subtle until you get something that feels natural to you.
justanotherasianhere: I think its due to the taboo of guys making noise and they are expected to be quiet while the girl makes all the noise. As a girl it is the most rewarding thing to hear a guy make noise because it means that I am doing something right. I love blowing my boyfriend and then hearing the “oh gods” escape his lips. Or the little “fuck” as I deep throat him and drive him up a wall.
sandybeachclam: Your last sentence is in no way evidence of your first sentence.
poppystmichelle: Men are more visual and women are more turned on by sound. I almost came once from my bf softly saying all the stuff he wanted to do to me. He, on the other hand, wants me on top so he can look at my boobs and watch his cock go in and out.
loktar-ogarr: I wish I could be more vocal. I moan obviously but I’m too scared to talk dirty, say what I want in bed.