Do women get turned on dancing for a man? If so, why?
meltallica82: I’m sure some women would, yes. Personally, I’d die from the awkwardness.
effervescentpony: For me, it’s because I can see if he’s enjoying it / the view, which makes me feel confident and sexier and attractive. Close dancing like grinding or a lap dance also feels physically good and intimate and close with my partner. It’s a fun way to tease and be a method of foreplay before sex. I don’t like to dance in general or in public but it can be enjoyable to dance for my man.
chiwife1189: I get very turned on! It is a great feeling to be lusted after.
pancakeboobs: I feel like it’s always hard to say “women are turned on by x” , since everyone is different on their own as well as in different contexts, with different partners.
Sorry that’s like a non answer, but in the vein of a question that’s like “are people turned on by performing or doing things that don’t directly stimulate them”– definitely. I get so turned on by watching/performing/talking with and without touch! It’s such a mental/emotional thing in my experience.
modpinking180: If she thinks she’s good at dancing, yeah. Or if she thinks *he* thinks so, then yeah.
Pleather_Boots: I love the idea conceptually, but I feel too self conscious to do it.
So no, not turned on.
tbee3: Yes, it just feels good to be close.
PM_ME_UR_baaby: I love doing it for my man (or woman) but it doesn’t turn me on. It makes me feel really good about myself if I’m getting a good response.
It used to turn me on, now I do it so much while camming it does nothing for me. But I still love doing it!
notoneofyourfans: It’s empowering (or at least that is what my stripper friends have said). You have this person practically drooling just from the way you roll your hips and stare. The closest thing I can compare it to as a man? Something that you did in bed pushes your partner close to orgasm and just seeing their reaction to it almost makes *you* cum.
minkymax: Yes. I like being close to him and rubbing up against him and it turns me on when he starts throwing and spinning me around.
I get ridiculously horny if he is a good dancer. It makes me think that his moves and rhythm will make him good in bed.
docturmishii: I love dancing and doing the whole bump and grind at events and concerts BUT.
If this man thinks my awkward ass is going to enjoy dancing for him…alone….with no one else but me there…yeah no. I love pleasing my partner but the last time this happened I could not keep it together man. I couldn’t stop laughing at how ridiculous I probably looked.
Sam_189: If he’s getting turned on, I’m getting turned on.
mypasswordisredditor: Yup, grinding, teasing. It’s great.