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My girlfriend cries every time I eat her out
My girlfriend and I have been dating almost a year. We’re very active sexually, but I prefer to give oral than PIV sex. However, ever since I have started using my fingers, her orgasm is followed by a few minutes where she breaks down into tears. This has been happening for months now, so we’ve learned to deal with it. I don’t really mind that much, and she assures me that it’s not because she’s upset or anything, she doesn’t know why. Does anyone else have this problem? Or know why?
Boobawooba: I have this too sometimes. You just can’t control the tears coming. It must have felt amazing and great and I guess she was just shaking and had a blast. Just a very good thing 😀
It just feels great in my opinion, both relieving and letting it all out and go.
stink_ytofu: She may have post coital dysphoria, which is pretty common. When I have multiple orgasms in a row, I find myself extremely depressed for a while after.
123iamapea: I cry after a really intense orgasm, whether sex or masturbation. It’s just so intense the emotions come out in weird ways. I view it as a good thing, if you can make me cry you got me off goooooood!
Vinniikii: This is common in some lesbian circles, it means you are so good at orgasms that is able to let go of genital trauma.
ZeekOwl91: > Does anyone else have this problem
I don’t think you should see it as a problem, but actually take it as a compliment. It may feel like a problem, but as your girl has said, you should probably just rest assured that you’re doing an awesome job.
klarigold: is it happy crying or sad crying? I happy cry quite often after sex, just because of all the endorphins. but if it’s sad crying it could be something else – maybe she feels ashamed because of religious upbringing, or does she have any sexual trauma? she might say she doesn’t know why but these things aren’t easy to talk about.
live2jetski762: Its a perfectly natural thing.. There are some videos on youtube that cover why sometimes women cry during or after orgasm.. Search “crying after orgasm” or “female crying orgasm” on youtube..
If I had a girlfriend that cried during or after orgasm, I would cuddle up to her, make her feel safe, and let her know she’s safe to cry 🙂
I hope this helps 🙂
Tuched4TheVry1stTime: Yeah it’s happened to me after some intense orgasms, it’s almost like a drug wearing off, a huge come down, after an overwhelming high. And is usually caused by marathon oral and multi-stimulation. It’s a weird, But clearly whatever your doing is good.
thankyou_sir: Really intense feelings during sex and orgasms do this to me. As long as you’re checking in with her, maybe be extra cuddly after or see if you can do anything for her (water, tea, snack, touching, etc). But I think its normal. Just a lot of feelings and hormones.
DefiantDentist9: You must be good- tell us your secrets
capricorn68: It used to happen to me regularly. Still does once in a while, but not nearly as often.
sdm1110: Happens to me after intense orgasms. Just sort of a wave of emotion caused by the stress built up and then the release.
NatetheWizard: Crying often is good for mental health sometimes. It’s nice to release your emotions and let it all out, good for relieving whatever stress may be happening in someone’s life
Eliza03: Happens sometimes after a g-spot orgasm.
pascalines: This happens to me after intense g spot stimulation
ButterBales: Usually when something feels crazy good I cry because the pleasure is just unimaginably amazing.
iseeaball: As long as she says she isn’t upset, I would take it as a compliment. When my boyfriend makes me orgasm, I will usually cry. However, I can usually wait until after we’re done. I cry because I get overwhelming feelings of closeness to him. Like I feel so much love for him, I cry happy tears. That’s probably what’s happening and she just doesn’t understand it.
thundrthy: My boyfriend and I are pretty rough and violent during sex sometimes and I often cry during for one reason or another. He’s gotten to the point where he asks if I’m ok periodically and just keeps going lol
I always feels so bad for ruining the mood but it’s not like I can help it
Catatau1987: No problem. That’s quite common. If it bothers her, then she should see a professional (therapist, not go go boy).