What turns you dominant guys on?
I [18F] want to try new ways to turn on my boyfriend [20M]
inappropriatelygreat: begging for it, literally
edubkendo: Fighting me, making me take submission from you inch by precious inch.
marriedtosister: Her pretending to resist (by actually resisting physically, just not emotionally) and me having to force myself onto (and into) her is a lot of fun.
After “winning” the game, a lot of submissive words and phrases, begging, seeking permission – becomes a lot more fun. There is NOTHING like being asked if your dick can be sucked with a “please”.
Chickachic-aaaaahhh: Fucking me back, power struggle. Sometimes its not about you just taking it but taking it in the way you want to take it, and we have to deal with it. Sexy as fuck.
easilytransfixed: Feeling submitted to, trusted, knowing that what I’m into you’ve gotten into because of me, and have come to love and crave it.
It’s the little things, the way you need only a hand on the shoulder to know to kneel and serve, the way you pre-empt desires with sexual and sensuous surprises. It’s permission softly requested to give me a blowjob after a long day, it’s moaning and thanking me even when my spanking bring tears to your eyes.
It’s not about putting my pleasure first, it’s about coming to find pleasure in pleasuring me, and it’s the high that comes with being trusted with your well-being and sexuality.
mrmurdoom: Really any kind of submission. Calling him sir or daddy. For me, it’s really just her being submissive and watching her get turned on by what I’m doing. Eye contact in certain cases. Everyone is different though.
ZeekOwl91: A bit of defiance. Like someone else has commented, a bit of resistance makes it interesting and not too one-sided. Every time my gf does this it forces me to up my game, and I guess that’s what we both want ?!
loveandsubmit: Cutesy costumes and her calling me daddy. Putting my hand over her mouth. Seeing her eyes light up when a little of my dominant side comes out accidentally in everyday life. Her pout when I push her mouth away from me. The way she moans as I wind rope around her body. Seeing her just succumb to the story when I’ve planned a scene to surprise her.
Well, I guess everything about my babygirl and our sex life together.
TomasdeVasconcellos: Definitely, defiance.
I really dislike when I’m able to be dominant with no defiance.
The other possibility as “inappropriatelygreat” mentioned, beg. To be naughty, to act like you crave him.
Sexy as hell.
ScorpioLoverboy: Being able to use my full strength – which I’m not holding my breath for to happen lol. I always have to hold back on spanking because I’ll get an “Ow!,” or I have to make sure my love bites don’t leave a mark. Can’t pull hair as hard as I want too, etc. Being able to kick it up a notch or two would be awesome.
dontridiculemyname: Doing whatever I say, gagging/tearing up during a blowjob, and looking at me innocently while being fucked
ohsnapt: I want to pull her hair and spank her and make her tell me naughty things. Orrrr she can be like oh fuck me I’ve been bad, or she can tease me, wrestle me whatever.
Basically showing you want me to tackle you and fuck you. Or playing with the dynamic that you understand I want that.
But I’m pretty down for whatever, and that’s not the only dynamic that turns me on, happy to switch it up
peufpeuf55: Being a bit shy, but clearly interested. Having (or at worst faking) a strong reaction to a kiss or a grab of the posterior.