BY Ann Whidden
In search of the elusive G-spot? Or maybe you’ve already found your female G-spot but you haven’t found the right G-spot orgasm technique to take you right over the top? Here are our top five tips for perfecting your technique and maximizing your pleasure:
G-spot Orgasm Technique #1: Aim High.
Really want to be able to find the female G-spot? Set your sights high: the G-spot requires a sharp angle for proper stimulation. If a woman were laying on her back, imagine aiming towards the ceiling with your toy or fingers at just a ten to twenty degree angle from the bed. The G-spot feels like a firm area about the size of a peach pit, right behind the public bone—the more turned on you are, the easier it is to find.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #2: Keep it short.
Yes, we all hear the hype about bigger is better, but nothing could be further than the truth when it comes to finding the female G-spot. The female G-spot is usually just a few inches on the inside top wall of the vagina (pretend you’re aiming up towards the belly button), so an extra-long—or even regular sized—toy might bypass it completely. Try a toy designed especially for the female G-spot, like the Bgee. The short, curved designs hook right into the G-spot.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #3: Think hard.
You might like to have your clit licked softly or touched slowly, but most female G-spots need firm, strong pressure to build to orgasm. Your own fingers might not be strong enough—or angled correctly—to reach. Try an extra firm toy, like the Pure Wand, or one that swivels, like the Rosebud. You might find that as you get more turned on, your female G-spot will respond to more and more pressure from your toy or fingers. If you want to add even more powerful vibration with your G-spot stimulation, try the Gee Whiz attachment with the Hitachi Magic Wand.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #4: Assume the position.
Okay, there isn’t a ‘magic’ position, but because the G-spot responds so well to firm pressure, you really want to be able to push right up against it. When using fingers, crook them back towards yourself with a ‘come here’ kind of motion, and prop her up on a few pillows. With a penis or strap-on, try a doggy-style position with her face and shoulders on the mattress and ass in the air, or have her straddle your dick and lean way back—both of these positions put optimal pressure on the female G-spot.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #5: Come here.
Some women need a little build up to a female G-spot orgasm, so if it feels a little too intense at first, back off on the pressure or slide around the G-spot until you’re ready for more direct pressure. The clit and the G-spot are connected, so it’s no surprise that stimulating the clit while really pushing against the female G-spot can be the key to taking things to the next level. Don’t be afraid to direct your partner to fuck you harder (which doesn’t always mean faster!), touch your clit, or do whatever you need to maximize your pleasure. The Form 6 or a the Silver Bullet are a great choice for clitoral stimulation.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #6: Repeat.
Okay we know we said the Top Five Techniques… but once you learn them, there’s yet one more thing to do!! A little (or a lot) of practice can go a long way when it comes to female G-spot orgasms. And remember, the trip is as important as the destination—stay focused on having fun, and lots of orgasms are sure to follow.