Is it possible that [girls get turned on more] by letting u finish in them?
My fwb seems to get turned on more than she usually does if I tell her I’m gonna finish in her. Like she gets this look in her eyes if I say I’m gonna cum in u, and it seems to just make her more horny when I do. Has anyone else ever had this happen or maybe its just a kink of hers?
beatrixotter: Oh my goodness, I love this. A guy cumming inside me is a huge, *huge* turn on. Even if he’s got a condom on, it’s incredibly hot and incredibly satisfying. I can usually feel, internally, the spasming and spurting. Unfff, it’s fantastic.
I never really considered it a kink before, though. I guess I assumed that most folks share my enthusiasm for that moment. Hmm.
huxleyanne: Yeah this is a huge “turn on” for me. I use quotes because it’s not something I fantasize about or include in my list of turn ons. For me (and I think most women) it’s a biological mechanism screaming for procreation. Logically, we might not want a baby, but physically/hormonally we absolutely the fuck do.
intoler: I love it. It’s a huge turn-on for me and I can actually physically feel it just a tiny bit, but it’s a great feeling both physically and mentally. Buuut it’s really annoying afterwards when it all comes back out again.
Birds1010: Some girls do. Like me! Some girls find it disgusting. As with anything that is asked/talked about on this sub “every person is different.” Creampies are my jam. Getting them, watching porn with them, fantasizing about them… So that’s why it’s such a turn on for me. Ironically enough, I never want to be pregnant! It’s actually one of my biggest fears to be honest. I literally have nightmares about it. So maybe it turns me on because it’s also a bit of a taboo/risk
finmeister: This is why, as a woman, I. Hate. Condoms.
I would rather do things other than PIV or nothing at all until we’re both tested. For me feeling him finish in me physically feels good, but I also have sex for the intimacy. With a condom there’s nearly no friction, no heat transfer, no energy exchange. Sex loses all the human quality and having a partner cum in me is like, the most human part of sex. It’s a huge part of the intimacy. Condoms, to me, are not only a physical barrier but an emotional/psychological one.
beccamoo518: I know for me, I think most guys would prefer to cum in me. When I really am wrapped up in the sex, in the moment, ill say cum in me. Just the thought of how much pleasure they get from that makes me want them to sometimes. So the answer to your question for me is yes, I can get turned on more by letting the man finish in me, not bc its any better or worse for me, but bc its something that a lot of guys want to do anyway, I think it makes it a little better sex for them if I let them. If that makes sense to u.
FloofyKatten: Yes. I have this, and for me it’s both a psychological and physical thing. On a psychological level I just get a lot of pleasure from my partner cumming, no matter which way. It’s always a huge turn on and makes me really happy. And a guy cumming during PIV in me is just more intimate than, say, during a hand job, so yeah, there is an extra bit of excitement and satisfaction for me in that. But I also think that cum does something to me on a physical level. It’s hard to describe but it makes my vagina feel more sensitive, tingly and hot for a few minutes and gives a bit of additional physical pleasure.
Snesgamer83: I believe males and females are somewhat biologically wired to enjoy cumming inside of a partner or being cummed inside of respectively. Primal reproductive urges, ya know? I think it’s a bit ridiculous to call such basic drives a “kink” or a “fetish”
heyimlame: Absolutely a huge turn-on for me. I’m not using condoms with the guy I’m seeing right now and I’m dying for him to cum inside of me!
homebrew_ken: It’s extremely normal.
Whatchamathing: As a turn on this is kind of a two-parter for me:
– there’s something instinctually hot about the idea of him coming inside me. For me this is completely unrelated to any conscious desire to be pregnant (I am staunchly childfree) but there is clearly some subconscious tick that says that feeling him come inside me is a GREAT idea. While this does more for me without condom, with condom the thought of it still kind of ‘works’. I have sometimes warned a partner that when I hit on this subject in dirty talk, it’s not a desire that they take off the condom, it’s just a fantasy.
– the act itself, the moment of feeling him orgasm while he’s inside me, his body pressed close against mine, is wildly intimate and hot and honestly a thousand times more exciting than him pulling out and coming in some other way. I want that moment of climax to be shared with me, to feel the pulsing of his cock and his hips stuttering and his breathing and the way his hands clench on me and the way he sighs and lets his weight sink down on my body and… the whole thing. It’s amazing. Gimme. Let me feel it.
kai_06: It is a huge turn on for me. I DO NOT want a baby, probably ever, but there’s just something about it that makes me so turned on. I just find it incredibly sexy when you can feel him getting closer and cumming inside you instead of pulling out or finishing off another way.
freecel2345: I think there are a load of androgens in semen which, when in contact directly with the vaginal walls around the cervix and fornix, are absorbed into her body and subtly influence her psychologically. This is in addition to any psychological effects of knowing that it’s happening has.
RinkanShojo: I don’t consider it a real finish if the guys don’t cum in me. Even if it starts to overflow and there’s a mess, when I’m having sex with guys I always expect all of them to finish in one of my holes, it feels more “real”. Also I love feeling it shoot into my mouth or the guys hips throb while he’s inside me.
EDIT: Also screaming “cum in me” during a climax, and all its variants is also very hot and intimate.
oceanscales: I can’t relate to this at all, but it looks like a lot of others can. I’d consider talking to her about it, because if she’s aware of it she might have a more extensive fantasy behind it and you two could have a lot of fun.
Bluesky_Daydream: Some do, some don’t. I’ve had a few partners get more excited when I finish in them, but none more excited than my wife.
When I tell her I’m going to cum, the noises get louder, the grinding gets harder, the nails dig deeper… It’s pretty amazing.
My advice, roll with it. Sounds pretty hot to me!
Ohfuckit17: Honestly yes, we feel it, you get extra hard and the thrusts get more and more insistent and strong. Then when you get filled up…. phew man it’s so hot. Feels so good
gfy_fml: Nothing beats busting a load inside a woman. It is so intimate, and it’s the ultimate feeling of just “letting go”. It’s great to not have to worry about where i am going to have to shoot it…
Scorpiodej: Wouldn’t call it a “turn on” but it definitely gives me the feeling that I did something right. And just the feeling of my partner spasming and than crashing on to me panting is amazing.