Reasons Why You SHOULD Have Sex On The First Date
Assuming, of course, that you want to. Even our single gal godmothers on Sex and the City (save for Samantha, patron saint of Sex on the First Date) were a little too old fashioned when it came to this one major dating rule. But hey, it did eventually work out for Carrie and Big.
While everyone from our mothers to Agony Aunts everywhere have advised against it, sleeping with someone ASAP, these days at least, is definitely not a death sentence. Here are a few reasons why you should.
1. You Want To
As long as two (or more – I don’t know your life) consenting adults are down, there’s no problem. Just make sure you wear protection.
2. You’ll Find Out if You’re Compatible Where It Counts
Why waste time and energy waiting for the fifth date only to find out that you two do not mesh well together in bed? Biggest letdown ever.
3. It Cuts The Awkwardness Later
In fact, the longer you wait, the more pressure it’ll put on both of you. If you’re doing it right, first dates should leave you excited, intrigued, and a little bit tipsy – the perfect formula for cutting the awkwardness or self-consciousness. Then, when you inevitably do the deed again, you can just get right down to it!
4. It’s Intimate
First dates are all about skating the surface. You learn about their job, their hometown, what kind of music they listen to. Sure, that’s all obligatory, but the real good stuff happens when you both get a little vulnerable with each other. You know, sans clothing.
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