Anyone else get turned on by completely nonsexual love talk?
So, I [20 F] always get super turned on when my boyfriend [24 M] says cutesy romantic things to me… like, we were in bed snuggling, fully clothed, and he called me his wife, which made me jump him right there.
We’ve been looking at engagement rings, which don’t get me wrong, is super heartwarming, but it also turns me on like nothing else.
He also said that if I accidentally got pregnant (though I’m on birth control) he would be worried (financially) but “ecstatic”. Y’all have no idea how much this did it for me. I mean, I also have a huge impregnation kink, so this one might be null and void, lmao.
This kinda makes me pretty self conscious because I think most other people my age have a healthy fear of commitment, and I clearly don’t. I definitely love this man and fully intend on marrying him. So I guess that’s why. I was just curious about others’ experiences with this.
InWonderOfLife: The other night I was about to fall asleep with my husband by my side. It had been a tiring day. As I was about to kiss him good night, I caught a glimpse of his eyes looking at me, and I just very naturally and sincerely told him: “Your eyes… they’re so beautiful…”
He smiled such a sweet smile, and slowly told me: “They’re only beautiful, because they are looking at you…”
Ok, needless to say, we finally got to sleep much, much later that night.
sticktotheknee: Being that there is an internet-spawned term for this (affection erection) I can only assume this is a common occurrence
Karpattata: I get a boner just looking at her, the hell do you think happens when she says lovey things?
WhamBamGlitzAndGlam: Omg, *yes*! I was complaining about how I forgot my rings at home the other day, and my boyfriend just casually says, “Don’t worry, one day I’ll get you one to replace it.” And then grinned at me.
I immediately jumped his bones. Can’t say shit like that to me and not get your dick sucked. Foh.
QueenRubyReign: I get turned on just thinking about romantic stuff sometimes.
freakycloud: Sometimes even a loving text will do it.
kellogspecialk: I get turned on when he talks scientific jargon
frostiana: Lovey stuff makes me want to skip the light barftastic, but I am a hardcore nonromantic