Nina Kravits better known as Nina Kraviz is a Russian DJ, music producer and singer. Wikipedia
Born: Irkutsk, Russia
Record labels: Rekids, !K7 Records, fabric, Mixmag, TRIP Records
Albums: I’m Week, Mister Jones, Nina Kraviz, The Deviant Octopus, MORE
Genres: Techno, Tech house, Deep house, Minimal music, Electronica, Acid house, Tech trance
How do i (23F) convince him (23) i am ready to have sex?
Things have been progressing sexually with this guy (23) Kind of dating, kind of haven’t spoken about it but i didn’t really want to.. just want casual because i trying to get into law school. He dropped out of school but I have know him for 3 years like he is my best friend. I really want to sleep with him but it seems like he respects me too much.
I gave him my first hand job/blow last Monday night and he came back for the weekend that just past, gave him another BJ and i let him titty fuck and such but he left late last night in a hurry say that it would be best if he left because things might get to heated. despite my protest he still left now i am just confuse because he hasn’t really spoke to me at all today.
I just want to get my virginity over with and I feel like he is the perfect guy to do it with because i trust him so much.
How do I convince him that i am ready? or I am just making a mistake.
Koi_love333: The next you guys hangout alone before you do anything ,Be honest and tell him what you want. If he still does want to have sex with then he probably isn’t going to.
PS. Make sure you have condoms.
Ennokk: Are you doing this because you actually like the dude or you just want to throw away your virginity? Either way, just be straight up with him. Next time ya’ll hang out, pull a condom out of your wallet or something and throw it at him. He’ll get the message.
CandelaBelen: I think you just have to be direct with him. I feel like it’s more disrespectful of him to let you blow him ans jack him off, but not do anything for you, and assume you don’t have sexual feelings just because you’re a virgin. If you’re ready then you’re ready, you’re the one who decides.
ManBearHybrid: Go ahead and talk to him about it. There are so many possible reasons about why he may be apprehensive, and remember that his reasons for not wanting to have sex are ALWAYS valid. If you’re lucky, it may be a simple misunderstanding about what you each want out of the interaction(s), but it’s also possible that he just doesnt want to have sex for some reason you haven’t thought of.
If that’s the case, accept it gracefully and move on. His decision is final.
kalkuns: Hes a virgin himself?
prettyhotthrowaway: I don’t know you guys or your situation, but as a dude let me tell you, doesn’t matter who it is or how well I know her, doubt id ever turn down a friends with benefits situation, only problem is that most of the time that can lead to more
spencerthegato75422: If I were you, I would hold on to your virginity as long as possible. Sexual intercourse has a lot of consequences. I’m 36 (M) and my daughter just turned 5 today. This is after losing my virginity at 25, having a one-night stand with a lesbian one year later, and otherwise having *terrible* luck with women, on top of being on the autism spectrum.
Waiting for the right person will be worth it, no matter how long it takes.
Sorry if my story seems rough. I’m just using it as an example of what COULD happen.