People who are a fan of anal, would watching your partner finger their ass turn you on?
I feel like it’s pretty self explanatory, but my partner really likes anal. While I don’t think I’m physically ready to do full on anal sex, I feel like fingering myself or letting him finger me is something I’m capable of, and I’d like to surprise him next time I see him. Would you find this a turn on or would it just be frustrating?
Tukayyid74: Yes it is a huge turn on. Just today my wife let me put my finger in her ass for the very first time.
Tell him to be gentle and use lube.
U-SHOULD-POST-TO-GW: Absolutely!! Particularly doing regular PIV sex. Ride him reverse cowgirl, turn around, and tell him “play with my asshole, but be nice”.
pariah13: Resounding YES. I like playing with my wife’s ass. She’s not into full anal but occasionally she’ll let me slip a finger in when I’m going down on her. I love it and although she wouldn’t admit it, she likes it too. Watching her do it would be awesome.
RyanZi18: Yes. Huge turn on.
Oldirty233: Yes yes yes. i remember my girlfriend told me she didnt care for a finger in her ass. I remember as i was going to wash up and she was horny she was sitting there fingering her ass….. it was crazy because i never expected it. you best believe i went from 6 to 12 instantly
Coidzor: Yeah, probably.
Sinnocence37F: Me, personally, no… peoples arms usually aren’t long enough to make it look sexy lol, so it does nothing for me, but if it turns them on, sure, I like to see people turned on 🙂
at_zack: Yes! It’s the best way to work your way up to full on anal penetration.
The trick is, just like everything else with sex, you can’t just go right to the fingering. You should work up to it. Normal foreplay, some straight up PIV sex, then your partner should slowly work up to it. 69 with you on top is a great way to either rim you a bit (which if you’re both comfortable with I highly recommend as it both feels amazing and is a great way to work up to more direct stimulation of that area) or they can do a little outside finger action while giving you oral. If you’re on top in cowgirl, they can start off by reaching around and grabbing/massaging your ass, and then as your pleasure is growing and you lose yourself in the ecstasy, they can slowly work towards the center. Again, start by just massaging the outside slowly with the pad of one well lubed finger, applying increasing pressure until they can slowly insert it. The 3rd option is when doing doggy/”prone bone”, they have the perfect access to your hole. If you’ve already had a finger or two in, your partner can try a thumb. Again, slowly on the outside first, then working their way in.
Personally, I can attest that there are times when, in the heat of the moment, my girlfriend can get so aroused that she doesn’t even notice that I have a couple of fingers or a thumb inside her. She always has the most amazing orgasms when I do it, and I love her reaction of surprise when I tell her that I was in her ass and she didn’t even realize it.
Photo10036: Absolutely. If you can get two fingers in, side by side, and slowly pull the hole open makes for a great scene. I love to watch my wife masturbate both her pussy and her anus with her finger and toys leading up to a frantic and hot screw.
MistressesSnowSlut: Yep, it’s awesome!
BlackFire68: can verify… is arousing
ebazii: Guys really like that stuff, I think it’s because it’s a bit tighter than a vagina? Other than that I don’t really know what makes anal stuff so sexy to em lol. I’d reccomend also going to an adult store and getting a plug that seems like it would be about right, those are great for starting out. Slowly working up is the way to go, and LOTS of lube if you want to try anal sex lol. (you don’t need as much for toys) At first I thought I wouldn’t like it, but as time went on I actually enjoyed anal play a bit. Just make sure to properly clean yourself afterwards to avoid any urinary infection or yeast infection etc. c:
Maligned-Instrument: 100% yess
Anotherway2liv: My lady will finger her ass while I do her from behind. It is so hot to watch and helps her get off. In addition I put one hand on her hip and one holding her arm behind her back to pull her onto me. It’s hott.
elocut: Try a plug during intercourse. It will feel huge at first but once I get accustomed to it a bit I become animal I just want to fuck him hard. My husband isn’t huge on the butt stuff and I don’t like a dick in there but a plug will get me sooooo wet.
7H3R3V3N4NT: As a guy… yes. I’m an assman, so anything anal related is a huge turn on. I love licking my partner’s asshole when she’s bent over in doggy with her face down on the floor. Even hotter is if she does any kind of A2M.