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Forcing each other to last. Suggestions for punshiments?
My boyfriend and I (both 25) have recently been “torturing” each other by forcing each other to last and not cum.
He usually lasts 8 minutes or so, which is usually long enought for me to cum, but I know that I can cum more than once and I wanted to do that with him. So I began edging him, forcing him to last 10 minutes, and when he managed to, we added one minute, and we’ve been doing that ever since. He’s up to 22 minutes now.
He said one day that it’s not fair that he’s the only one to “suffer”, so he started edging me too. He eats me out, fucks me and uses a vibrator or a dildo on me, and I’ve started using a fleshlight on him. At first it was pretty much the same as when he eats me out, but the fact that I wasn’t allowed to cum made me get there faster and he’s gotten better at giving me orgasms with oral and PIV.
Since then, the sex has been much better. He lasts longer, stays harder without stimulation, and his orgasms are better. I cum every time now, and usually multiple times.
I wanted to ask you for suggestions, because we want to take it to the next level and “punish” each other when we don’t last as long as we must. We thought about doing chores but that seems lame and boring, I don’t want to be thinking about doing the dishes when he’s fucking me. So the punishment should be something sexual.
Thank you ^^
jkw118: Well the one punishment for you would be a remote vibrator egg.. he gets the remote. And you’ll be required to wear it the whole next day.
He isnt allowed to keep it.turned on the whole day. But he can at any point turn it on and off for up to 5-10 minutes at a time on low-med.. during which time you are not allowed to cum.
Punishment for him.. maybe you get a cock ring.. which would prevent him from cumming and use his cock.. or a cock vibrator then you could similarly tease him..
The other options would be doing chores naked.. lol maybe w/u wearing a plug..
These seem rather one sided I admit.. but I am a guy.
RebelMarquis: Good idea I got from a post orgasm torture clip. If one of you cums when you weren’t supposed to, then you have to keep cumming until the other partner is satisfied. With how sensitive you’ll both be, it will be quite intense.
enjoyoutdoors: *”If you fail, you are gonna have to do it again!”*
Err. Something like that.
If he blows, he has to be passively filling you while you please yourself. You can use your hands or a vibrator. Your choice. When you have had an orgasm, it’s free game for him to start moving. The rule about lasting long enough still applies, but the timer is restarted.
Can be done the other way around too, but you’ll have a lot less of a fill if he is supposed to be able to use his hand on himself.
I’m sure I can think of more interesting things too. Got any mild kinks you want to work into this?
DRodzzz: Fiancé & I kinda have the same situation but a little more one sided. She gets to cum as much as she wants but I stay on edge until she “allows” me to cum. We also like male chastity so we work that in as well. Sometimes if I cum before she allows me too she will lock my cock up in its cage and make me eat her out until she says to stop. Other times she will cum multiple times and not even let me cum and will lock my cock up and it definitely keeps me on edge lol.
She also doesn’t really like me cumming in her mouth. So sometimes on the other side when I’m being dominant her “punishment” will be that she has to swallow my load.
sumerioo: Orgasm denial: Whoever cums first won’t cum at all on the next time.