Have you ever done something for your partner….
That you didn’t particularly like but it makes them feel good? Something happened yesterday with my partner that made me think about this question. We were having sex, you know, and I finished on her face. We don’t do this often, but when we do, I loved it like you have no idea. Afterwards, we started talking and she casually mentions that it’s not her favorite thing in the world to get cum on her face, she only does it because she knows how wild it gets me. This kind of made me feel bad about enjoying something that my partner doesn’t like. Have you ever experienced something like this? How did you approached it?
Meme_Connoisseur979: My gf [F]23 and I [F]22 have sex once a week. She absolutely loves getting her breasts licked and I… Let’s just say it’s not my favorite thing in the world .
talkinboutfuckin: I’ve been on both sides of this. One girl I hooked up with in college a few times liked to pin me down when she was riding me. I’m very dominant, and usually like to be the one doing that instead. It did nothing for me to be pinned down but I did like how much she enjoyed it, and I willingly let her each time. It wasn’t like it was a chore that I suffered through.
NotMeAgain235: My girlfriend adores slow sensual massages that transition to sex very slowly. She lies there and has her whole body rubbed and adored for half an hour. It isn’t terrible and sometimes I enjoy it but I could live without it
cdi4440: Uhm I hate to admit this but my wife tolerates anal, it does nothing for her. I let her do her things to me. It’s called maturing together. As long as we physically don’t harm each other we get to enjoy our little quirks
casino_night: There’s a lot of give and take in the bedroom for any sexual relationship. For example, I used to have a GF that LOVED having her inner ear licked. It did nothing for me but I did it because I knew how much she loved it. I’ve also had requests for choking, hard spanking and bizarre roleplay that I’ve gone along with. There are some things I won’t do like anything asshole related. I’ve had women ask me to fuck their ass/finger their ass/lick my ass but I won’t do it because it’s a huge turnoff for me. In other words, getting a face full of cum might not be your partners favorite thing but she’ll be happy to go along with it from time to time. The only time you should feel guilty is when she sets up a boundary and you try to cross it.
kimbalinapea: Yeah, all the time. It’s called being a generous lover. Make sure you find something that she loves and do it for her.
okayellie: I don’t like getting facials. I’ve got thick curly hair that it gets in and and I just don’t like the feeling on my face. But my boyfriend digs it hardcore, so I let him every now and then.
venting98: My boyfriend likes when I lick his ass, literally. I honestly really hate it, but I know he likes it and in the moment all I care about is making him happy so I go for it willingly. It isn’t until one of his long ass crack hairs ends up in my mouth that I remember how much I don’t like doing it