PAZ VEGA – SEX SCENES – SEX TAPES
This past week I was away on a work thing. Two of the nights me and some others there drank quite a bit and I needed up having relations with a co worker. (Both nights) not only is he from my same store, BUT he actually JUST started. Besides the work event, I’ve been around him maybe 2 or 3 times.
ANYWAY, the point of the post…
We really weren’t that drunk. But After the first night, he acted like nothing had happened! I’d imagine there would be subtle changes after sometime like that. Nope. Nothing. At all. No extra looks. So extra conversations. No extra touches. No flirting. Then the next night it happened again. Then come morning, the same thing. Nothing! I even brought up having a bruise from him squeezing my arm too hard, and there wasn’t even like a sly smile or any slight indication towards it. Just him making a joke about me being more careful…. he started it all. Not me.
I realize how ridiculous my worry is over this . Because I don’t even want a relationship. I don’t want him to be all clingy like were together. But fuck! Aknowldge me, or it, or something.
Am I wrong for feeling weird about this?
Not about the sex, I don’t care about that, it’s not awkward or anything. It was good. I would do it again.
It just seems weird that hes acting like.nothing happened. It’s almost rude…right?
iHaveACatDog: It’s not rude at all.
He just started working there and wants to make sure good first impression with his employer. He’s compartmentalizing what you two have done and his employment.
I’ve done this in the past and had girls ask me if something was wrong. I’d tell them that what we did outside of work shouldn’t impact our professional relationship and behavior. I wouldn’t want co-workers asking questions about the increased conversations and time together.
If anything you should thank him for not changing in a way to make others suspect anything.
This means if you want you can keep doing it without unwanted attention from your coworkers.
StabbiesMcStabface: >he actually JUST started.
This may be the key. If I had just started a job and had sex with my co-worker, I’d want to keep it very hidden. I don’t know the company culture and I may be fired/harassed/etc if people found out.
If you want to talk to him about him, perhaps assure him that it is just between the two of you and then discuss it privately.
ladysparkletits: I’m sure you’re both right. I’m just being a girl, and over thinking everything, like I do….all the time…