Jamón, Jamón 
Men and women: Tell us how your kink/fetish makes things interesting or fun in non-sex times
M47 been married 22 years, two full-time jobs, three kids. And I have a foot fetish, and love my wife’s feet very much. Pretty much whenever I want, or whenever she asks, I can touch, feel, rub, and love on her feet. This is usually when we’re watching tv and/or chilling together. If we’re alone I can lick them and suck on her toes at pretty much any time I want. She doesn’t object, and likes it. This doesn’t lead to sex, but it does make me horny. Like this morning before work, she was on the couch watching the news, we were both drinking coffee, and I knelt in front of her feeling and licking her feet. Of course, now I’m horny for the day, but that’s all right because there should be some activity tonight.
Guys and girls, what do you do in relation to your kink or fetish at non-sex times?
irrashonal: Kinda strange and probably not what you were looking for.. but I have a huge kink for being controlled/ owned/ forced, etc. My man fulfills this for me during sex, but a while ago (mind you, I was super horny), I had a conversation with him about having this sort of relationship outside of sex too. He’s a dominant person in general, so he loved the idea.
He chooses my outfits, I ask him permission to go places, he tells me who I can/can’t hang with, tracks my phone. I’m basically like his doll, inside and outside of the bedroom. And I absolutely love it. It gets me so hot and because he loves me and our relationship thrived without this dynamic, I’m convinced it’s healthy. Of course, when he takes it too far a quick convo fixes things and he adapts to my boundaries but that rarely happens.
bsnis01: I mostly tease him sending him pics with me partially undressed. (like a white wet shirt with no bra where he can see my nipples clearly)
Or We kiss and touch in the morning and I rub his penis over the pants teasing him and I leave.
At night we enjoy and release the tension
CookiesandcoffeeOo: Remote control vibrators are (in my opinion) one of the best things ever invented!! I’ve only been able to use ours when out once, but I’m planning to again next week. I absolutely loved being able to give my husband the remote while we were out for a meal in the pub, trying desperately not to make it obvious that he was driving me crazy.
I’m definitely a fan of being turned into a horny mess in public without anyone knowing except me and my husband. It makes the sex when we get home even more amazing.
Centias: I like pegging and prostate play and anal play in general for both of us. So she touches my ass at random times almost as much as I touch hers. We often find ourselves grabbing each other’s ass at the same time when we kiss and giggle over it.
She likes being dominated a bit, so sometimes when she is standing I will just shove her hard up against a wall and kiss her, sometimes with some choking, then walk away leaving her flustered.
Cjsaurus1: Living as a dom is honestly fun as long as the other person is actually compatible with you. I thought I wouldn’t like the lifestyle but its a trip.
MissQuickening: I have a 24/7 D/s relationship. Last night I was being a brat and was thoroughly whipped for my very willful, giggly disobedience. 😛
Texassized104: I wear an adjustable cock ring most days. I wear is loose enough in a pair of briefs that it could just slip off. send pics to my gf and have fun that way.
I also pick out her underwear for her. She likes wearing chokers, along with lingerie under her work clothes.
sleepingflower: I have a bit of a knowledge kink. So sometimes he will go on long explanations of esoteric topics while I stare hungrily at his lips. He really enjoys the attention.
I’m also super into him ordering my food and/or drinks. Like he still asks me if I want them but I find his outgoing nature vs my borderline antisocial behavior are super huge turn on.
easy-jim: M50, Dom. Love putting my sub in the corner, nose right in the crease. Either standing or on all fours. Either naked or panties down to mid-thigh. I could just sit and watch for a long time… and I have.
mcqueen455: My kink is chastity so it’s pretty much there during all my waking hours. Even after 6 years of just about 24/7 there are at least 2-3 times a day outside of waking up or stepping into the shower (those two things always get me) where I’m like, “Damn. My cock is locked up.”
It definitely makes things interesting even when we go as much as 10 days sometimes without a single acknowledgement of my situation.