How to prepare for anal sex: 5 tips to make sure your first time is perfect!
You need to prepare if you want to have fun!
When you talk about sexual intimacy between two people, to be honest, anal sex isn’t the first thing that comes to anybody’s mind. Anal sex comes with a lot of pre conceived notions- some true and some not. In fact anal sex doesn’t even come across as pleasurable to many people. The usual talks and myths about anal sex is that men love doing it because the anal hole is tighter than the vagina hole and anal sex is something they have seen a lot in porn and fantasize about it. However, apart from the drunken stories of anal sex shared between women or men, there is hardly any knowledge about anal sex and practical knowledge is probably zero. So in order to throw some light on the unexplored parts of sex, we decided to give you some tips that will help you understand how to prepare for anal sex. ALSO READ When you don’t have sex anymore, these 7 things happen to your body!
1. Clean up before the act
The most popular myth about anal sex is that it is dirty and unhygienic because it involves the butt. But the fact is that anus has bacteria fighting properties and thus the cleaning process is usually done by itself. So even if you do not wash yourself right before the act, it is absolutely fine. But you definitely need to clean up if you are planning to use or insert any sex toy since that can infect your anus. ALSO READ Pornhub has revealed our deepest, darkest desires;Porn survey throws light on our sexual behavior
2. Use a lot of lubrication
The one thing that you need to know is that anus does not lubricate on its own like the vagina does. And thus use a lot of lubrication especially if it if your first time. You could also consider using condoms that are lube based and not water based. Whether you are planning to experiment with toys, fingers or your man’s penis, just ensure there is enough lubrication. ALSO READ Sex when you are tired: 5 ways to have sex when you are tired AF!
3. Go slow and smooth
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When you are ready for penetration back there, the best rule that works is to go very slow. Ask your partner to insert his penis real slow and not directly just insert it. You need to be at ease and very comfortable. If you are planning to have anal sex with your partner, then it should be easy since the trust levels also matter for you to be at ease. If you are tensed, your muscles will get tighter. So just go slow and smoothly until you are totally comfortable. ALSO READ These 6 tips are all you need to have the most intense orgasm ever!
4. Position matters
You need to choose a [position that will help you feel relaxed. Try a position that lets you be in control. Several experts also suggest that the best position to try while experimenting with anal sex is spooning. Another sex position that works the best for anal sex is the doggy style position. ALSO READ Best sex positions for female orgasm: 6 positions for a guaranteed orgasm!
5. Use protection
No anal sex will ever make you pregnant. This is one reason why most couples prefer doing anal sex. But that again shouldn’t be reason for you to not use protection. Always use protection when doing anal sex so that you are away from any kind of sexually transmitted diseases. (ALSO READ Best sex positions to try on your honeymoon: 5 sex positions that will spice up your honeymoon!).
Follow these tips and you will surely have fun with anal sex.