Making Of Primera Linea [May 2018]
Advice from women with rape fantasy
Hello and don’t let the title scare you, this is a very common thing and if you do a little research you’ll find it’s not what you might think. Now on to the meat of the thread…
My girl friend and I have been dating for close to a year she’s a submissive I’m rather dominant so in that respect we fit well together. Her favorite type of sex is rape fantasy, sometimes pretty vanilla other times not as much. She’s gone as far as crying so I know she gets pretty into it at times. We have great sex always trying new things with each other we are both very sexually open minded.
I would like to hear from those who have experience with this type of partner or who they themselves enjoy this sort of roleplay. NOTE I do not want to hear your sex stories, I’m looking to better understand the psychology behind it to heighten her experience as much as possible. Also because I love her with all my heart and her happiness is most important to me.
GalliusZed: My partner also has a rape fantasy, though we keep it fairly light. The key is communication, talk to her about it, and set boundaries. You have to make sure you’re both on the same page about this otherwise it could be a disaster. And as important as it is to make sure she is comfortable with what you are doing, don’t you yourself do anything that you are not comfortable doing, just to satisfy her.
yesmissy: I get turned on by fear. I also like giving myself over to my boyfriend’s desires and feeling like he’s so into me that he loses control like even if I used our safe word to ask him to stop maybe he wouldn’t because he’s past the point of no return. Even though I trust him and would expect him to actually stop.
As for things that heighten the experience I think not knowing when it might happen is a huge turn on. He’ll sometimes attack me with no warning and just take me. I LOVE IT.
StallionThatMounts: My wife really enjoys the rape fantasy. In fact we only started doing it because she asked. Although she seems to enjoy it more when I play an authority figure forcing himself on her, teacher/student, police officer/arrested civilian and the such. Some times we play it all the way through the big O. Sometimes I have us stop the fantasy and just finish normally. Kinda creeps me out. But I at least try to for her. When I do call it off. I just simply tell her, “I want my wife back”. Which has resulted, occasionally, with her instantly having an O.
ScrewRosesWantThorns: I’m a guy who has had (women) partners with these fantasies, and who also has had this fantasy for many years.
From when I was about 12, I’ve had recurring fantasies about being a small, petite woman who is being forcibly *used*. lt guilty for the longest time, but eventually accepted my desires and overcame that. The feelings that the fantasy evokes in me are too strong for the fantasy to be suppressed; the twin barrels of feeling desired and powerless. Turns out, those feelings are exactly what my partners have been chasing.
In addition to that, fear is an aphrodisiac; as is the anticipation of rough sex.