What does my GF’s (20) peeing feeling during sex mean?
When my gf and I have sex she can never finish/orgasm but when she masturbates she can finish by herself but never has this peeing feeling. However when we do it at a certain position (I hold her legs up) she gets this feeling where she has to pee. Does this mean she’s about to finish? If it does how come she never has this feeling when she masturbates?
She suppresses it because she’s afraid of peeing even when she used the bathroom before sex
SuzieQ4u: It means she’s about to squirt… If she can allow herself to relax she will probably release 🙂
ireasearch: When I have that feeling, I need to pee. I always pee before sex. But if the guy holds my legs up I am going to have to pee again or I can’t enjoy sex.
I have orgasms and I squirt. I don’t like squirting, but, I do not get a peeing feeling when I squirt. When I squirt it is just liquid coming out and it does not feel like peeing at all. When I orgasm it feels like an orgasm is about to happen, just like when I masturbate.
Men have refused to let me go to the bathroom during sex because they were under the misconception that I was about to cum and I just needed to let go. Assholes. I won’t tolerate that nonsense now. When I was younger I put up with their stupid insistence that they knew my body better than I did.
Your cock is pressing against her sponge. It is not comfortable and feels like she needs to pee. I hate it when a guy tries to hold my legs up. Not a nice position for me at all.
Yes, this is a triggering topic for me. I have some very unpleasant memories of men determined to make me cum or squirt.
slayerbunny: She’s going to squirt 🙂 it’s hard to get past that peeling fear, especially if you’re the self conscious type. It really helps to have a partner who clearly *wants* to make you squirt. At this point, it’s a major part of my partner’s and my sex life but there was a time when I was embarrassed about it, too. Tell her it’s hot and that you want to be able to make her get to that place. If she’s still not down with it, let it go and maybe she’ll bring it up again in the future. Maybe she won’t. Every person is different and needs different things from their partner 🙂
mysickmuse: As a few have said, it sounds a lot like she’s going to squirt! Reassure her and make sure there’s a towel down, and then see what happens. It’s an amazing feeling so I hope she feels more comfortable about it soon.