Question for guys, do you like when a girl licks your ass? And when is it too much
So a little back story, I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months who I am so sexually attracted to. Like I always am wet while thinking of him and he makes me feel so comfortable, that I am willing to try everything in bed. I consider myself a sexy person, and a very sexual person. But I have never felt this was towards someone. If I had it my way we would have sex 24/7. I feel like my inner beast comes out the second i see him. I cum so hard with anything we do, so I’ve wanted to return the favor to him. Where he is so amazing at pleasing, I don’t think anyone has ever really pleased him. He was really shocked when I was giving him head and went lower, he loved it and talked about how hot it was for a week. So I started getting a little more aggressive, like last night I went all at it lol. He made noises I had never heard. And came so hard. But I think he was a little shocked after lol. Did I go to far? I really don’t know what it is that makes me so open around him. Just typing this I’m wet. So men, does it turn you on when a female does that. What else do you guys like done. I want to give him the ultimate pleasure
tawa83: Pro tip: if he’s hard; moans; and cums buckets…he LIKED it. Continue exploring…
JasonsNSFW: I love it when that happens. My gf doesn’t do it much and she’s always tentative. I’m always embarrassed about bringing it up afterwards but I’d love her to do it more and even use a finger. She presses on it sometimes in sex but never penetrates. Trust me he’s a fan of what you’re doing
LoveDemNipples: If you have a raw desire for him, you’ll express it in all you’re doing to him, like you’re hungry for him, enthusiastic about what you’re doing, and moaning with your own pleasure when you touch him or kiss him. THAT’s the single biggest turn on for lots of guys.
But if you’re going to play with his ass, maybe make a bit more production out of it, and turn it into a fullblown massage. Lie him on his stomach and drip oil up the backs of his legs, massaging his feet, legs, all over the meaty, grabbable parts of his ass, up his back, shoulders, and his arms. After working all the way up, come back down to his ass and make it a focus. Stroke your hands up and down his hips, maybe commenting on how they feel in your hands and how you like the look and feel of them. Grab his ass cheeks in handfuls and squeeze. Playfully slap him a little to remind him he’s at your mercy. Bury your face in his ass cheeks and kiss and bite him. (combination worship and discipline) Tease and tickle with fingertips up the backs of his thighs, inner thighs, up the crack of his ass. Might be a bit of a dominant thrill for you to push his legs apart, much like he might do to you. With his legs apart, he’s pretty vulnerable to you, which is where the turn-on mindfuck comes into play. You can slowly stroke and tickle and tease higher and higher up the inside of his thighs until you’ve caressed every part of his backend except his asshole. Keep teasing, drawing circles around it, flicking right across the center, maybe grabbing and spreading his cheeks occasionally, making him excessively exposed and vulnerable, then massage right on top of it and feel free to slowly press into him. Lots of guys may have hangups about their ass, so listen to him closely, and ask frequently if that’s okay or if he likes it. If he’s okay, you can seductively suggest you want to go deeper. Get him up on all fours to stroke his cock with your other hand. If you can find his prostrate stay on it and see just what kind of an orgasm you can give him.
All that said, you may want to discuss ahead of time, outside of a sexual experience, how much you like his ass and how you want to spend some time admiring and playing with it, especially given how he reacted previously, which seriously turned you on, by the way. That can give you a good indication whether any of the above is worth pursuing.
Have fun, and tell Reddit how it turned out!
fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck-: It’s fucking amazing. It’s both a weird sensation AND one I can’t get enough of. No such thing as “too much” (for me, anyway).
wastedfucking: Fuck yes I like it. It’s never too much. Work that tongue up there like you love it.
throwitawayyy1345: Thanks everyone for posting, I really do appreciate the answers!
Snesgamer83: I don’t like women touching my ass – it’s the one thing I wouldn’t let a woman do even if she said she was really into it. I’m a bit of a hypocrite, as of course I love touching theirs!
Youarebananas: Try pegging him
Taintjuice: I’m pretty open with my wife about it at this point. At first I didn’t want to acknowledged that I liked it but now I’m like yeah that shit feels amazing, do it as often as you like. I wouldn’t surprise him with a finger or anything but you can definitely start playing with it.
ScorpioLoverboy: Wouldn’t want that at all. But every guy is different. If he liked it, and it seems like he did, ask him directly what else he’s into or open to trying.
19720703: > And when is it too much
IDK what you mean by that. Code Brown?
starchildvenus: Sounds good..Just have him he clear of his boundaries.
Lights_n_Fire: NO! Absolutely hate it.
evertravel: I know that this feels great. You can take it a little further in a few ways before leaping head first into pegging. You can bed him over the bed so you have full access and stroke him at the same time. You can also lick down below while using a fleshlight on him. This is truly a mix of all kinds of greatness.
As for moving a bit further, there are some fun options to get things started in that direction. Hop in the shower with him, stroke him and then use your finger slowly at the same time. See how it goes and how he reacts. Just remember that this feeling the first time or two is really different than his body is used to. So take it slow and just have fun with it all.
Mtnskydancer: I’m right there with you, OP!
Working to prostate massage and orgasm.
It’s tough to bring up. Or, rather finding the timing to bring it up.
Do I finger? May I seek the prostate? How to get that consent?
Then the details. Will gloves make him feel dirty in the wrong way?
I wish he’d speak at these points. The body is saying a lot of yes, but I know it can go awry so fast.
bathory_helms: Love it
Pez-Fez: Hard no. This guy is uncomfortable with even fingers in the back door. Tried, and no thanks.
BMorec: I enjoy it. My wife did it once one night and it was incredible. She was odd about it at the time and wouldn’t even discuss it happened although she’d clearly enjoyed it.
It took a while, but she eventually admitted it. Now she does it every once in a while and it’s great. A little anal play is fun.
Datmuthafucka27: I certainly do, and it has lead to some wild times! My GF was a but more aggressive before(just going for it the first time we made love), but the discussion part is key, and will totally open up some doors. 😋
ThomasTgeDankEngine: Oh yes, it’s fucking sweet
MisterMiscellaneous: It actually feels really good, just no fingers! But I would be embarrassed to ask for it unless I was in a long term relationship with a very sexually open person.
troutpout9: Some insecure men worry that enjoying their manpussies makes them less masculine. However, the enlightened man knows that the manpussy and shitoris (prostate) give as much pleasure as the penis. Shove two lubed fingers up his prepared shithole while deepthroating him, and curve them towards the front of his body, applying steady pressure to his shit clit until his orgasm blows the back of your head off. Insert both index fingers in his buttpussy, pull it open, and slurp the delicious interior of his rectum like a lollipop. Gnosh his asshole from behind like a famished refugee while furiously jacking him in the shower. Take him up your own shithole doggy style and, when he says he’s starting to cum, reach back and yank a ripcord of anal beads out of him, causing him to blow spooge halfway up your small intestine. The possibilities are endless.