Women who use a butt plug in daily life! Why?
I’m curious because I see women on r/gonewild showing off their gems or plugs at the work place it just randomly throughout their day. What about it is enjoyable? Is it more of a taboo so it’s exciting? Does your partner make you do it? How long do you keep it in? Do you ever tell anyone you have one in? I’m just curious because to me it seems fun but painful!
sandybeachclam: Once in it isn’t painful. It just creates a feeling of fullness. I’ve never kept one in longer than maybe 3 hours. I know some people keep them in during a “normal” day as part of d/s play.
RinkanShojo: At this point it just feels normal to wear one, it’s like a standard piece of clothing. It’s very satisfying. Back in the day it was the taboo aspect of it too but I don’t mind that as much. Walking around wearing something like this:
Just feels amazing, especially if you’re wearing a shorter than usual skirt. You can feel it push against your insides when you sway your hips, why would you not like that!?
edit: although when I get to work I take bigger ones out in the bathroom… can’t concentrate with a larger than average plug in me.
gwendy25: A mix of taboo and also because the sensation of fullness is what I love. I wear them under my clothes once in a while too but mostly at home.
gspotman64: My wife says she is not into anal but during oral she likes pressure on her butt and some fingering which gets her excited. She uses her muscles to literally suck my finger into her ass. I have purchased her a small butt plug which is slightly larger than the width of my finger and a bit longer than the length of finger that I insert. She is resistant to using it. I also purchased and have used one for me as a way to show that I like butt play and willing to experiment. How would you suggest that I talk to her to get her to agree to move forward?
whiskey_pants: I have been wearing them to just get more comfy with it and there is no pain or you should remove it. I can walk, sit, do all my normal things and mostly even forget it is there. And I just am doing it as I said to get more used to it really. I thought I didn’t really like them much, but I got a stainless steel one I really like and that changed my mind. Before that they were fine, but nothing I’d have thought I’d really enjoy. I doubt I’d wear one to work, but that is because I am a super focused person at work, so I don’t like things that distract me.
p0cketable: I used to wear one daily at work. Had several different sizes, materials, etc.
I was doing it because I was working up to doing anal though – I guess that’s a little different than wearing one just because. Although, the feeling was pretty nice… and it felt sort of naughty, so that was definitely a plus.
I don’t know why anyone would wear one of those gem plugs for an extended period of time though. In my experience, the shape of the base is really uncomfortable, especially when walking. It gets pinchy. I stuck to smoother bases, tried to find ones that were more elongated to conform to the shape of the crevasse it was going to have to rest in all day. 😂 Made more sense to me. Plus I don’t trust the cleanability of where the gem meets the base.