I keep worrying that my mouth is too small for oral.
My lips aren’t small but my mouth is tiny, I have quite a small head in general like my palm can touch my nose and my fingers can still touch the back of my neck. (I measured and the side of my face is 5 inches from my lips to the back of neck)
It’s to the point where I struggle even doing non-sexual things, just general stuff like brushing my teeth (I struggle to brush my tongue because I just constantly gag on my toothbrush), the most I’ve ever been able to put completely in my mouth is 4 inches long and like 5 inches wide, is that bad?
(I can fit like 5 fingers (Like not balled up but just flat) in my mouth up to the knuckles)
How can I manage more and stop gagging? Is this actually a problem or am I just over thinking?
GulliblePlankton: You have nothing to worry about. You dont’ *have* to take the entire penis in you mouth. You can do plenty of magic with just the tip or like half of it. Just tell your partner to take it slow and never to force his penis down your mouth. Then again, no guy should ever do that.
functionaladdict: I also have a small mouth, just take in the first part of the penis and use your hand for the rest.
Rand0mThrowMeAway: Your head sounds about the size of my head. I have a small mouth, too. I was worried about giving a blowjob especially when I learned that my FWB has a large penis. He’s 7 inches and very thick. My hand is small because I am petite, so my fingers and thumb did not touch each other when I held his penis.
I can still give him a blowjob, and he said he is not into deepthroating so it works out. I didn’t take the entire penis into my mouth. I asked him if he can feel my teeth and he said it is not bad. He was impressed that I did great for my first blowjob and he came quickly. You’ll be fine if you know what you’re doing or you can ask your partner what he likes and practice. 🙂
zcarjoey: Nothing wrong with your mouth. I have a decent size penis and I don’t care if they can fit it all they way in. Most of the magic happens on how you use your mouth.
RottenRedRod: You know most blowjobs aren’t deep-throating, right? That’s just a porn thing.
I’m a guy who LOVES blowjobs… And I don’t particularly care for deep-throating. Blowjobs are best when you concentrate your mouth on the penis head while using your hands on the shaft.
FeistyBlueberry: You are just overthinking it. Majority of nerve endings are in the head of the penis, just as they are in a clitoris.
People always think giving head is straight up taking the entire thing in their mouth. Play with his balls. Lick them and suck on them gently while you stroke him. Stroke him while you play with the head.
Also, press your fingers hard into your palm when you go down on him, it will stop you from psyching yourself out and gagging so much. It’s a distraction
amethystmelange: There is no man in the world with a penis that’s 5 inches in diameter. So I think you’re pretty safe with that. 😉
Regarding length, I know there’s a lot of hype about deepthroat, but realistically it’s just one of many possible BJ styles, not THE end all and be all of BJs. In fact, most of the erogenous nerve endings are in the head (well, I meant the head of the penis, but the other head matters too!), and you can do some pretty crazy things with the lips and tongue on it regardless of the size of your mouth.
I think you should worry less about this. The most important component of a good BJ is enthusiasm, anyway.
BoopinSnootsnUpDoots: Just like the best handjobs involve using your mouth, the best blowjobs involve using your hands.
jkw118: Not all guys are huge (you’d probably have a issue with mine) LOL but there’s a lot of guys who may be only 4-5″ and you could probably take most of them. You could take me I’m sure when I’m soft. So you could go full hog when soft, then less when hard. That being said if you chose to I’m sure you could “teach” your body to swallow/deep throat. There’s a few things online that show how to do it. That being said, most of it is about making the cock as slippery as possible. Accepting that you may throw up (especially when beginning) And it will not happen overnight. ie one gf, really wanted it and it took her about a month to be able to. Daily (2x a day for 10-15 min) she’d take a thin flexible dildo she had and would try and deepthroat it. Most of it is basically negating your gag reflex. I’m sure there’s plenty of free video’s online about it. check [pornhub.com](https://pornhub.com) or youtube.
She had a smaller mouth, but to me that was probably what made it better as more went down her throat.
Another gf, did it, and my head would constantly hit right where the reflex was. So she constantly felt like gagging. Truthfully you don’t really negate the gag reflex you just make it less sensitive, so my cock hitting it constantly just made it undoable with her. She had a big mouth in more ways then one LOL