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How do guys feel about having casual sex with an inexperienced girl
I feel like dudes have casual sex just to get the job done, and if the girl is inexperienced, it might take a while to get it right or he might have to explain things, so I feel like he might get annoyed or not want to do it anymore which becomes embarrassing for me. I don’t know how to do a lot of stuff and I want to make sure my partner feels good as well, but don’t want to annoy them with my cluelessness, so just wanted a general idea of how guys felt about situations like this. I’m not talking about relationships or anything, just like fwb or one night stand situations.
HappyLaughingFerret: You really shouldn’t worry… you’re looking at this all wrong
Firstly – yeah I think some of the ladies round here are going to be top of their game – but an awful lot of us came crawling in here with from dead bedroom marriages with a shit load of self worth baggage for AP’s to deal with.
You’re all shiny and new!
Secondly – enthusiasm and willingness to communicate pretty much level the most sheltered or us up with some of the others.
You’re gonna make them feel like a sex god!
Go forth …. you have so many new things to do!!! New things are the best!
nextmanonthemoon: I’d say it depends on the dude you meet.
I can only speak for myself: If you tell me before hand that you’re inexperienced than I can adjust to that. Don’t get me wrong with casual sex I usually ask what a woman expects from this.
> annoy them with my cluelessness
Wouldn’t annoy me. We all start somewhere.
Older_But_Wiser: I’m over 60 and lately I’ve only had sex with a beautiful woman who has about 40 years of experiance. But I was young once and never worried about a girl’s experiance level nor got annoyed and didn’t want to do it with a partner I might had. Sharing and learning is enjoyable and fun, never annoying.
Now if we were talking about a complex game like bridge, or going over procedures in the office then I could see getting annoyed at an inexperienced person (unless my job was to train). …But with sex? Never!
PS: For my entire adult life one of the most important parts of sex was always trying to please my partner. The focus is never totally just about me. So just relax and take it easy and enjoy whatever comes your way.
Whappingtime: There was this one girl at my office that i used to work at, she was in her twenties and really shy. After we went out a few times we had sex. She was really, inexperienced. I took it slow with her and make sure she got the most pleasure out of it.
It’s really rare for me to meet a woman who’s inexperienced like that and it’s not something I go for. Honestly, it’s almost better to do it when you are in a relationship if you are inexperienced.
From what you have written it seems you contradict yourself by saying that you don’t like it when guys just want to get the job done. While wanting a FWB or a one night stand. I mean a few FWB’s I have had did have good chemistry with and that made things better.
ImagineThat67: No problem with it personally, anytime you are with a new partner, you pretty much are inexperienced until you find out what they like. Communication is key and being upfront about your current experience as well as what you know you like will make it a better experience for both.
ScorpioLoverboy: I wouldn’t mind an inexperienced girl. As long as she had a high sex drive and was passionate/enthusiastic in bed, I couldn’t care less about her sexual history or lack thereof.
akinyele1: Inexperienced is hotter in a lot of ways. Depends on if you’re also insecure
biggusdickusalt: I definitely don’t mind it. Part of me likes teaching my partners new things anyway. The one thing I will say is communicate. If you’re inexperienced, tell me! That way I can work with you. If you don’t tell me, or lie about it, it’s not gonna be as much fun as it could have been for either of us, and I’ll usually figure it out anyway.
solid437: The fact that you care enough to want to be better is enough. The only “bad sex” from casual encounters comes from the cocky women who think their looks are all it takes to get a man off. Those ones tend to either have dead fish syndrome or feel very disengaged.
imp_of_santa: Trust me. If a girl is having sex with me of her own free will and not charging me, it’s going to take a lot more than “inexperience” to annoy me.
I would think with most girls, what you are calling inexperience would come off as a charming innocence. But even if it didn’t, so we would have to go a little slower, or skip some of the weirder stuff. If that is the worst thing that happens, it’s still a very nice night.
The_Real_Can_Do: I have been married to my wife for twenty years and she is still has no idea about sex so have gotten used to shit sex for the rest of my life.
pieater69: It would depend on the situation. If you’re just in it for the experience, find someone with experience. This is also an oxymoron however, you never know until the situation is in front of you.
Just make sure that your needs are paramount, you need to have fun most of all.
Some-Like-It-Hot: Most guys will be flattered if you choose him for your first time. Assuming he’s not a complete jerk, just tell him. He’ll respect your honestly and will give you all the time you need. And, if for some reason he doesn’t want to take the time (personally I can’t imagine why), he can politely back out.
Bottom line: Tell him so that you’re both on the same page and you can go about it as a team.
Snesgamer83: People all start out inexperienced you know, I’d be understanding of any “slowness” the first time around and know that subsequent times will be better if we hit it off.
lcx5048: 1. Just get a few basics down (personal hygiene, be gentle rather than rough until he indicates a preference otherwise, make sure everything is nicely wet/lubed up, blowjobs: no teeth, slick and wet, experiment with motions and take cues from him about what he likes)
2. Show playful curiosity, and extreme eagerness to learn and experiment
3. Be vocal about what you like/don’t like so they don’t have to keep guessing if you’re having a good time
I guarantee guys will go nuts over you. A LOT of them are really into the idea of innocent, horny, virginal girls lmaoo so just work off of that. Have fun!! <3
henbanehoney: If a guy just wants to come and go, so to speak, I wouldn’t worry about it, you’re not missing much lol
SexlessNights: As long as the sun is out, I don’t see a problem.
kilbus: I think casual or not the guy wants you to have a good time as well.
FraterPoliphilo: I don’t find ignorance annoying in situations like this. It’s enough of a pleasure to teach. you sound enthusiastic and willing which are qualities that I prize highly. If you’re dating somebody who gets annoyed in basics of sexual situations like that you probably shouldn’t continue dating them.
-nautical-: Honestly, I wonder this same thing about women having casual sex with less experienced guys. I have some experience but still struggle with basic stuff, although I’m completely willing to do just about anything to accommodate my partner. I feel like I have a kind of lack of confidence due to a lack of experience, and it’s self perpetuating. Thoughts?
donniedenier: I have literally never been concerned or upset about a girl being sexually inexperienced in my life. Guys are just grateful for the opportunity. Our standards for what makes a girl good in bed are pretty damn low because even “bad” sex is still good. Being physically attracted to you is literally 95% of the experience.
acoldcupofcovfefe: The 2nd dude I ever slept with was a 1x thing in his car, I told him I was inexperienced and he honestly loved that. The 3rs guy I slept with told me he found me unbekiebly sexy at how shy and inexperienced I was.
OppositeOfOxymoron: I’ve often thought that I’d like to do this specifically. I love the learning and experimenting parts of exploring a new partner.
redditaccountiuse: Just being frank, as a guy I don’t like it. My experience is they’ve been bad in bed. But I was too when inexperienced so just part of life and no harm meant. Also guys in general will take a bad hookup over no hookup most of the time anyway.
Whodatunkit: To be fair, you should be with an older person, not really old, icky, but someone who has compassion and experience. Many younger dudes just play the old in n out and could care less. A more experienced person would already have talked to you before sex. In subtle ways preferably, it adds to the horniness. That’s the secret, find a guy that makes you so horny you will talk about anything, not do anything, but talk. Discover boundaries in a really sexy, leading way. It’s my fave. As a guy, I want that girl to be so horny and wet she’ll jump on a Fence post for me..lol jk. Good Luck! R/fencepost