First Tinder ONS
Former fundamentalist christian kid here (25F)… just out from my first relationship so not a virgin but not very experienced either. Just had my first one night stand with a guy from Tinder. Feeling awesome for 3 reasons: Firstly that I didn’t chicken out (although I wanted to so badly), secondly that we did it 6 times, and thirdly that I don’t feel bad about it at all the morning after. We had breakfast and I left for the office after that.
To all other recovering fundamentalists who are finding your sexuality… you can do this! Sex is awesome, and whenever you choose to start doing it, you will be okay. Have fun and stay safe!
hungrymutherfucker: Wait, you had sex six times in one night? I like to think of myself as virile, but that’s quite impressive
UnluckyLily: Yay! I remember my first ONS and feeling so liberated. Like you, I had zero shame the next day, just giddy giggles that I felt so alive. Take care sweetheart
MisterBator90: Good for you! It’s a powerful feeling getting what you want and not being constricted by how others feel about something that would make you happy. Love it.
germanist: I’m really happy for you 🙂
Damn six times … I miss my college fuckbuddy now
cocomontey: Hey, maybe post on r/exchristian so that some other fellow fundies like us can be liberated. Some of us remain caged after years of the same thing.
YourLittleBuddy: Congratulations. I did highschool in a fundamentalist school (although I didn’t grow up in a Christian household — quite the opposite).
I still feel weird about casual sex at a personal level, and I think it has something to do with that environment. I like the idea of it though and I like that people are out there getting amongst it.
chancellor-II: For ONS, are looks the major deciding factor? Barring your date from showing any major red flags.
lucidity0309: Six times? That guy is a sex god.
QuesaritoOutOfBed: Congrats on the one night friend and your new found sexual liberation, just make sure you play safe, one night can last a life time.
AngusOfPeace: 23 year old virgin checking in. Tinder didn’t work for me.
chronikkilljoy: Congrats on getting out there and finding yourself.
sandybeachclam: Bravo !
5i5ththaccount: ‘grats on the sex!
BuddyPeanuts: 6? Thats it?
Tooexforbee: As a guy that broke a year long dry spell with a one night stand and managed to go six times as well, enjoy the drunk on happiness high and the liberation! It was my first properly successful one night stand and it’s an amazing feeling.
Jamiesplaything: That’s way to much sex for me haha. Anyways good for you, but random sex doesn’t have to be included when discovering your sexuality. You can do it with a partner too.
cutietomlinson: They should turn this into a Hallmark film. I’m so happy and truly inspired.
FedorDosGracies: Somewhere out there, a guy fell asleep at work, woke up and ate three sandwiches, went back to sleep.
OfficerB00ty: Literally this sounded like my first ever Tinder hook up. Freshly got out of the relationship, had sex 6 times that day. He was a lot better in bed than my ex too.
Benb89: Not having one night stands isn’t something to recover from. Some people just like sex to be meaningful. That doesn’t mean they are broken or wrong. They are just different from you.
notmylawn42: Six times, dang. Did you let him blow his load in you?
Serocco: One of us!