Boyfriend masturbated right after sex
So the other morning me and my bf had sex before work. He enjoyed it and definitely came. I had to leave for work half hour before him and he later let slip that he masturbated in that half hour.
We have a regular and healthy sex life but now I’m worried I’m not enough for him.
He says it was because I left him so horny he had to cum again. Is this likely or am I being naive?!
fulanoderock: You’re being naive.
When sex is awesome us guys will replay it in our heads and we get horny again. You should be proud, you banged him well!
Synergy89: i wouldn’t worry about it. dudes jerk off a lot. sometimes for no reason other than boredom.
Kit4000: I dont think its a negative thing i have had instances where my husband and I have sex , he goes into another room and 20 min later he’s back. He usually says something like he has another one in him. I look at it as a positive thing. The sex was go great he got wound up and needed another orgasm.
killinithorough: So you sexed him so good that he needed seconds? That’s a good problem to have. I doubt you have anything to worry about.
TheCuntyVaginaShow: Sometimes I’ll literally stay in bed and get myself off once more following sex.. luckily my husband has never been offended. It’s just an urge thing, not at all reflective of my sexual experience—only my insane horniness.
Sounds like y’all have a solid sex life and that’s what I’d try to focus on! He’s not rejecting you so he can jerk instead. There can be a healthy combo of the two.
JacobStyle: I do this all the time, no matter how good the sex was. I think anyone with a high sex drive can relate.
j__bunty: You should probably do him twice everytime
PhageBlood65: Oh sweetie..
My boyfriends sex drive is near insatiable. There are times where he jerks off right after sex because his engine is still running and my vag has taken to much of a pounding to go again. It doesn’t bother me all that much, i’d rather him be satisfied. Just because he jerks it right after sex doesnt mean you arent enough for him. Thats just something some guys do lol.
MountainSage58: I think this is sort of related…. so I have been pleasing myself most every night for eight years. Some have been good, bad, premature, etc. But there have been just a couple times where I have cum, still been hard, and had to cum again. Those are the times I remember the most, and they were legendary. I’d say you did a damn good job.
Spaceman-Mars: If you didn’t leave for work a million dollars says he would have had tried having sex with you again. I have definitely done similar things where I had amazing sex with my girlfriend, came, but due to time restraints and the refractory period wasn’t able to fuck her again despite wanting to before she needed to get ready so I would masturbate to thoughts of what we just did.
I absolutely inisist, worry not! You are driving him wild. If you hadn’t made him come it would be a different story but you did. Think about if the sides were reversed: you masturbating after he made you cum but then he had to leave for work. I would be incredibly aroused if my partner told me that and would end up thinking about it all day until I could get home and climb on top of her again
okaycurly: I had some pretty great sex last night and fooled around with the guy I’m seeing this morning but came home and masturbated because I couldn’t get him off my mind. You’re being naive and the sex is probably amazing.
mildlyincoherent: I’m going to be the outlier here and say that I used to masturbate after sex because I wasn’t satisfied. Though I wouldn’t have put it in those terms at the time — I just thought I was permanently horny. It happened with all the girls I dated, so I just sort of assumed it was normal.
I came to realize later that I needed kink play, or rough sex to feel fully satisfied. It had nothing to do with my partners “not being enough for me.” I loved them, and the sex was lots of fun. But vanilla sex never really fully scratched that itch for me.
TL;DR He may still be horny, but that’s not a reflection on you! Look at this as an opportunity to figure out what else he’s into. Help him live out his fantasies. Then you’ll have the most satisfied bf in the world.
Ih8j4ke: There have been plenty of times I’ve ended up masturbating after my wife goes to bed, thinking back on what we’d done earlier. Definitely not weird
TimmyD80: Sometimes a guy might have to cum again he’s so horny, it’s alright, if you’re willing, tell him to tell you if it happens again so you can have sex again.
raven_79: You’re okay. It sounds like you’re a little too good at pushing his buttons. Left him wanting more… of you. Not a bad thing.
Yung_dude99: Maybe hes fantasizing abo ut you in a different way that makes him even hornier. Why not ask him what that is and make it a reality?
glulu: Totally nothing to worry about. I’m a super horny person and I masturbate on the regular even when in a relationship with frequent sex.
KingCamembert: Don’t worry. I always do that too, I think it’s because having sex turns me into my ‘horny mode’ and I become like that for the rest of the day. You probably did a great job 🙂