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Make eye contact. The eyes are responsible for conveying a large portion of nonverbal communication. In order to look sexy in someone else’s eyes, you have to use your own to draw that person in, first.
If you are a little on the shy side, cast a quick glance toward someone to convey your interest. Keep casting glances his way every now and then until he takes the bait.
If you feel a little bolder, let your eyes lock with his and linger for a little while before you pull them away. As you turn away, offer an inviting smile.
Smile. A smile suggests that the person wearing it is friendly and approachable. Someone who is more approachable is also more likely to seem interested, thereby making the person on the other end more interested, as well.
A wide, open mouth smile looks confident and friendly, but a shy, closed mouth smile can look demure and sexy in its own way.
Be expressive with your face and hands. Blinking, nodding, and shaking your head are a few simple things you can do to make yourself seem more animated. Letting your hands naturally wave about can have the same effect.
A more animated women generally appears sexier than one who seems stiff and inhibited.
Know the power of a light touch. During conversation, lightly brush your hand on the guy’s forearm. This indicates that you are fully engaged in the conversation and breaks the first physical boundary between the two of you.
If you do not feel comfortable enough to touch the guy in question, briefly touch your own neck or collarbone. This draws attention to these exposed yet intimate flashes of skin.
Maintain good posture. Good posture makes your figure look better. Even a gal with perfect proportions can look frumpy is she does nothing but slouch.
Good posture also conveys confidence, which can be a very sexy quality.
Apply lipstick in the open. Instead of hiding in the bathroom as you touch up your lipstick or gloss, whip out your compact mirror and do it in front of the guys in the room.
This action draws attention to your lips. The lips and the eyes are usually considered to be the most sultry features of the face.
Slow down. In a fast-paced world, slow actions draw attention and give off the vibe that you do things at your own pace.
Slow down the speed at which you speak and pause in between sentences.
When walking by yourself, slowly strut instead of dashing from place to place.