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I (M27) dating a (27F) used to get wet easily in the last month. But 1 day after I took her virginity, she can’t get wet like she did before?
Hey, first time on the sub so I hope this question is ok.
Basically as the title says. I’ve been dating her for about a month. She told me she was a virgin, and I respected that. She still gets very turned on and wet easily when we are around each other.
In the last month, we mostly did foreplay and I went down on her to make her orgasm. Just 2 days ago, she was mentally prepared and we just naturally had sex for her first time and she really enjoyed it. It was the perfect sex in what she imagined as her first time would be like.
The day after (yesterday), we tried having sex again, but she didn’t get turned on when she could easily have before. She did felt some slight pain on her vagina the day after, so I’m not sure if that could be it. I went down on her to get her more turned on and eventually made her orgasm. Then I was able to have sex with her a little bit easier, but I guess we’re both wondering what the problem could be.
She was mentally prepared for sex the first time, but now she feels more nervous and not sure how to get over this.
If anyone can help, would really appreciate it!
Thanks in advance!
Batmike: Could be performance anxiety. Sometimes the girl can’t get wet, sometimes the guy can’t get hard. Not uncommon with first timers.
make_me_a_good_girl: This will happen to anyone at any age and the solution is really simple – lube!
Lube is your friend and is cheap to buy at most drugstores.
I’ve even found that sometimes using a bit of lube helps me get even more turned on because it takes you from Netflix to chill really fast and can make you feel SO wet that your brain just goes with it “Oh, I see we’re soaking wet now. Guess it’s time to be mega aroused, what with all that dick sliding into me so easily now”
Diet, stress, time in the month (hormonal changes), and age all affect how easy it is to get wet, so pick up some lube and just enjoy the sex! There’s no guilt in lube.
Megaanonxx: This is completely normal, especially since she’s super new to it! She may be a little sore as well. Just give it some time, and plenty of foreplay. Maybe give it a few days so she can build some tension again.
MarcusAureliusXC: Go down on each other to get the juices flowin first. Foreplay is just an important sometimes.
MickeyZara: Your sample size here is 1. That’s a problem right there.
mushroomrevolution: Get that girl some lube and trust her word. She probably is a little nervous. Ease her fears by being understanding and considerate. Her getting or not isn’t always indicative of her feelings for you. Read up on non concordance.
shoncooper23: 27 year old virgin yeah right! LMAO