Star Wars [Arizona] [Sep 2018]
What does it mean when a guy takes his condom off when he blows his load?
I was having sex with a guy that I really like yesterday. Right when he finished he took the conform off and he blew his load by my vagina. I’m really scared. Why would a guy do this?
snowhuntress: I had one partner who would do that pretty much every time (though not near my vagina – usually on my chest/ abdominal area, on my back, in my mouth, etc.). But he always asked. The fact your guy didn’t would be a bit of a red flag for me.
James32015: That means you should get tested and never see him again
lgbtabc: A guy would do something like this without discussing it with you because it feels better to him and he doesn’t care what your feelings on the matter are.
meltallica82: That means you should never, ever see him again.
4nonyninja: He did that because he’s an asshole. You wanted sex with a condom. He wasn’t to violate that agreement without your consent.
buggerd: personally i generally hate finishing in a condom and opt to take it off and finish on myself/ my partner 9/10 times.
HOWEVER its important to talk about this and ask to do it. Its a super dick move to do it without asking.
i wouldn’t be too worried tho, unless he finished right inside of you or started pushing the semen in, chances of pregnancy are **tiny**. chances of STI’s being passed this way are also slim.
ila1999: Wtf, that is NOT OK!
ra__account: He wanted to come on you. A lot of guys like the visual and/or concept of coming on their partner. That said, it’s not cool that he did it right by your vagina and he should have asked first. As long as it didn’t get in your vagina, you’re probably fine, but if you were in your fertile window and are concerned, you can consider Plan B.
EasyGmoney: Means he does not give two shits about you or your health
Metric87: It means it’s time to hit the road.
jemd99: It means he watches too much porn.
Puffwad: Maybe he was trying to replicate porn or something
elena1099: i guess this falls into a similar category as stealthing (man takes off condom without the woman’s consent and knowledge.) it’s a form of sexual assault.
get tested, and delete him from your life.
DirkDieGurke: It means he doesn’t want babies but doesn’t care if you get an STD.
Orangecabbage: It means he thinks porn is real life.
fauxnombreaqui: Because he’s a dickhead.
cuntisthebestword: Ok sooooo long story short. Why do guys do this? Forget about that it is a dick move and all that. The only answer I saw was, guys like the visual of seeing their soilders on the girl? It’s like a primal marking thing?
Underwater_Karma: what does “by my vagina” mean?
redplanetlover: Hi MomI
Juicyfruit209: I guess it feels better for men without a condom on to ejaculate
qtchris: You need to say that babe
ChaosMilkTea: I was going to say “to see it get all over you” because he’d think it’s hot, but he kinda put it somewhere he shouldn’t have. Don’t lose your head over it, but it is smart to be concerned if semen got on the vulva and to take a quick pregnancy test.