How To Be The Best He’s Ever Had: Ultimate Sex Tips
How to be the best he’s ever had
Everyone wants to be good in the bedroom right? Right. Whether we admit it or not, we all want to be able to give someone a night to remember.
Because when someone tells you that you’re good, well it’s a pretty brilliant feeling.
So how can you be the best he’s ever had? We really wanted to know, so we spoke to Annabelle Knight, presenter and sex and relationship expert, to get her top advice.
Trust us ladies, if you want to be the one he never forgets, you’ll want to read these tips.
Great sex starts outside the bedroom
Before you even get into the bedroom you can start spicing things up.
Annabelle calls it foreplay to foreplay.
“Play the long game, sexy messages while you’re at work, a romantic dinner, a candle lit massage with sensual oils – all of this will create a build up that can lead to the most incredible of experiences,” she says.
Yes, being the best isn’t only about what you do in bed, it’s about what you do out of bed too.
Be a try-sexual
Want to be the best he’s ever had? Then don’t be afraid to experiment.
That doesn’t mean you have to get out the whips, chains and handcuffs (but of course if you want to, then go for it!), but a little experimentation can go a long way.
Sensory play is a good one to start with. “You’ll be amazed at how your other senses are heightened when one is cut off,” Annabelle says.
Try blindfolding your partner and using something to toy (excuse the pun) with them. If you really want to up the kink factor then Annabelle suggests using a chilled glass toy.
Pop it in the fridge beforehand and run it all over the body, re-visiting their erogenous zones. Team that with a passionate kiss now and then and you’re onto a winner.
When it comes to sex, wet is best.
Lubricants with added extras like delay gel or warming qualities are a great addition to the bedroom.
“Hand jobs will never be the same again, lube up your palm and your partner, then use long smooth strikes, ” says Annabelle. “Try twisting your hand at the same time for a whole new experience.”
Don’t forget the perineum
The perineum is the little patch of skin in between his testicles and anus – it’s a nerve super centre and is very responsive to touch.
“Apply a light amount of pressure with the tip of your finger and massage gently,” says Annabelle. “Gauge his reaction and adjust the pressure and speed accordingly,”
Doing this at the point of climax can add to the intensity and make his orgasm feel like its lasting much longer.
Looking someone in the eye can make the experience really intimate and more intense, especially if your faces are just inches apart.
“Don’t stare your partner out, blinking-competition style, but a few seconds here and there of lengthy gazes will up the ante and also help you to gauge what should come next,” says Annabelle.
Yep, being assertive and self-assured is a great trick for giving him a night that won’t forget in a hurry.
Try not letting your partner get control at any point – you stay on top and decide how things are going to go.
“Restraint is a great way to gain control, soft satin ties are a great alternative to clunky handcuffs and feel great against the skin, alternatively just hold their hands in place,” says Annabelle.
“This isn’t just sexy because it’s kinky, but also because of the level of trust required. trust increases intimacy, leaving you with a deep and sensual experience.”
It could be a bit much if you do it all of the time, but every now and then it can work a treat.