I [F25] never had an orgasm
I have trouble achieving orgasm, I had a few sexual partners, but every time I feel really good I start feeling like I need to pee a lot, like A LOT. I often pee in itself, so I never wanna risk it so I ask them to stop.
Even when I masturbate I was never able to go all the way. I usually get bored in mid way so I stop.
What can I do?
fuckshitballs28: Do you masturbate with toys or just fingers?
Maybe a new or more powerful toy may help.
Kore624: Try laying on your stomach and “humping” either your hand or a bunched up blanket. The internal stimulation is what’s stimulating your urethra and making you feel like you have to pee. I’ve felt this during sex and I absolutely hate it.
Focus on the clit and surrounding area when you’re attempting to have your first orgasm. I personally wouldn’t describe any part of an orgasm as feeling like you’re going to pee. Once you know how to make yourself cum from rubbing, then it might be easier to explore penetration with clit stimulation so you’ll know the difference between an orgasm building up and feeling like you’re going to pee
proudhusband1: Three words: Hitachi Magic Wand
Also, it’s most likely that you are about to squirt when you orgasm. Don’t shy away from it, embrace it! It’s a turn on!
AmazinTX: There are new toys that are designed to feel like a mouth sucking on your clit. I’ve had a variety of toys of the years, but this is my new fav.
WestSnail: Orgasm can kind of feel like that at the start. Go get yourself a vibrator and use it in the shower. Some women do pee or squirt while having an orgasm and that is not abnormal.
R3tr0P0tat0: Sometimes for women the sensation of having to pee precedes an orgasm. I suggest going pee before you have sex and if you still get the feeling just try and let it happen. Put down a few towels in case you do squirt a little, but try an experiment and see what happens if you just let it go. You can ask your partner to finger your G-spot while stimulating your clit. This is a fairly consistent way of inducing an orgasm, but it’s not a guarantee since everyone is different. Good luck and have fun!